Heart

It's 'SALAD' timeee!!!^^

2012-01-15T01:49:00.002+08:00

Whoaaa!!It sounds so healthy when eating salad in the middle of the nite, rite???hoho unfortunately, that 'salad' term is not referred to any kind of food. It is just my invented term for 'talking many things' 'coz I don't have any specific story or topic to be shared.I juz felt so bored while I am supposedly need to study for my exam tomorrow. But, what to do...Mr.Study Mood is currently not available. So, I have to be friend with Mr. Bored for a while.

Err..before I proceed...did u all get the correlation between 'salad' and ' talking many things'??

Well if no, I'll explain.

SALAD, as we know, consists lots of vegetables. There are carrots, cabbage, tomatoes and so on. So, isn't that obviously shows their connection??? hmm?No?

ok..in a simple equation...

SALAD = consists lots of vegetables.= talking many things

= consists lots of vegetables = talking many things

= lots of = many

[pls understand~-_-] hehe

Now, lets move to another story...hmm..okay, I actually found that this story is kinda funny eventhough it is not that really funny, but at least it has widen your lips [trust me!hoho].

This incident happened when I went to the hospital with my sister and we sat next to an old man. We had a long chit chatting with him because of the long queue. But there was one question he asked that made me giggle[ I had to giggle because I can't laugh.It's a hospital man!I'm afraid people will get shocked if they heard my laugh.]

Old man : dok mane nak?

me : [I told the place where I'm staying currently]

Old man : Oh yeke??pakcik tengok kamu duduk tepi pakcik ni je.

me : erk![giggle] oh ye2..betul la tu pakcik.[giggle]

Old man : buat lawak pulak org tua ni,ye dak?[he laughed then...maybe geli hati jgk. =))]

Hey, do u know that everytime we think, one of our hair will fall??? That is why if you have lots of things to think, u will face the hair fall problem???

Well...dis is only a fake fact. Me create it.hihihi [iklan kejap]

Okay next story...

Our grandparents have another word for 'burger flipping' which they called it 'opportunity'.

I found this words in my exam paper yesterday which left the sentimental value in my heart because when I saw the word 'burger', a 'krrrookkk' sound produced from my stomach.Well, I won't tell a story about what's that 'krroookkk' sound or what is the relation between 'burger' and that 'krrookkkk' sound ya. I am actually thinking about the connection between the 'burger flipping' and 'opportunity'. And what I can sum up here is, when u flip a burger, there will be a little time space before the burger fall [time space gitu kann~=))] Sooo, it could be seen like this, opportunity comes without any realization. It comes so fast n for a while only.We must be ready to grab it anytime and anywhere.

SEMANGAT UTK 'LAUT SUKAN'

2011-11-17T14:49:00.001+08:00

weheee~ sempena cuti sem yang hampir berakhir ni, actually sudah berakhir pun tapi macam biasalah, mahu atau tidak, perasan atau tidak, ya atau tidak, atau atau atau...terdapat segelintir pelajar yang suka2 hati menambah cuti sem yang telah diperuntukkan itu-including me! Yeah!Rumah manis rumah! ^^ ala, tambah 2 3 hari bole dimaafkan kan?haheho~

Okay, back to the title above....adakah anda mengikuti perkembangan 'laut sukan' kita?? eh ehehe...SEA GAMES la...

ME? Of course I do...follow dari perasmian lagi tau!Update blog pun dpn tv : 801 ASTRO ARENA ; channel yang meng'update' SEA GAMES progress.

So far, I could say that peserta2 M'sia had given their best among the best and I feel proud for the achievement they have made. Mungkin ada sedikit rasa tidak puas hati terhadap pihak tuan rumah. This case is also talked by other countries if I'm not mistaken [what I heard from the commentators]. The supporters of tuan rumah tu seolah-olah tidak menghormati kehadiran para peserta luar dan membuat bising yang keterlaluan ketika acara-acara sukan sedang berlangsung. Ini secara tidak langsung memang menganggu konsentrasi para peserta. Atau mungkin itu merupakan salah satu cara yang mereka kenal pasti dapat melemahkan fokus pihak lawan. Namun, saya tidak nafikan, mereka memang bersemangat waja. Sanggup memenuhi stadium semata-mata untuk memberi sokongan kepada peserta negara mereka. Kadang-kadang saya terfikir, adakah jika SEA GAMES itu diadakan di Malaysia, orang-orang kita akan bertindak sedemikian?Saya rasa rakyat Malaysia mampu menilai apa yg baik dan apa buruk kerana bagi saya, rakyat akan mencerminkan sesebuah negara. So, go for celcom! IT'S IN YOUR HAND ^^

MODE : SEA GAMES ;))

Actually, we choose~

2011-11-03T10:10:00.001+08:00

aha!this is what actually happens in real world ain't?

But unfortunately, it does not have any connection with my topic...hihihih this is just for fun...=D

Well, do u ever wonder that we actually being choosy in this life? And I do think that we need to choose like

we need to choose our path of life, so that it will lead us to success. But the thing I wanna talk about here is the thing that I think people are not aware that they are actually being choosy, which is when it comes to choose the partner of their life.

OH REALLY???? I DON'T THINK SO... = \

Well for me it is...YES,eventhough not for all..but for most~

HOW?SHOW ME! :

Okay..this is the situations :

1. When sum1 ask :

A : Hey, tell me the characteristics of ur future wife?

B : pretty, caring, lovely, funny, bla bla bla

A : oh wow!that's many..

In this situation, we already select the characteristics of the person we want. So, when we SELECT, that means we CHOOSE.

2. When sum1 ask :

A : Hey, why did u broke up with him?

B : Hmm I don't know, maybe I wrongly chose.

Okay, this is obvious.

3. When U said :

U : I'm single

Me : SO who's next?

U : I don't know, I don't care anymore. Anybody is accepted.

Me : Including the beggars?old man?the ugly?

U : oh definitely not them.

Me : then?

U : I think I want sum1 who could understand me well, caring, love me for who I am and matured.

hurm well...still choosing -___-"

So..are they enough to answer the HOW?

Book & cover~

2011-10-30T01:01:00.002+08:00

Hye people!^^
Okay..before we go further, let me give u two quotes that is linked to each other as well as the title :

Human said ::: "Don't judge the book by its cover"

Cartoon said ::: "That is why books have cover, to judge them"

Now, lets take a look at these pictures of books :

Well, those pictures showed the books in variety of covers right? There is a fancy cover, plain cover, educational book cover, classic cover, black & white cover, colourful cover, one colour cover, old cover and if we take a look at any books all around us, they provide lots of different covers which is to attract people so that we are 'encouraged' to buy them ;) so..do u aware that this situation is actually refer to the 'cartoon said'?

How does book represents human?

Cover,is an outer. Which we can analyse physically. So, if it goes to human, cover means our physical or in accurate,our appearance or look. Juz take a look at those books. Some books have fancy covers, means there are people who loves to wear fancy shirts or use fancy accessories or anything fancy. Plain colour books, represent the people who loves to wear plain colour shirt, like to look simple & prefer to be in 'less is more' zone. Educational books covers usually tell us 'bout our 'nerdy' looks. While the old cover or classic covers can be considered as those who are look elegant, unique, sometimes mysterious and sometimes attractive.

Now, do u see the connection?
Well...honestly, I feel that 70% of us tend to judge people by their cover.Am I right? I'll give u the situation :

If we saw a beggar, with dirty attire, messy hair....we won't go close to him,will we?

If we saw a rich man, with sport car, nice attire, handsome, very well-organized..we tend to think easily that he is a very successful person...right?

And this is where the content of the book will take part ; to tell us who is actually deserve for the compliment.

But unfortunately, I won't talk about the content much in this post. 'Coz the title is about 'book & cover', so I will only talk about them.
I am not saying that judging people by its cover is not good neither not judging them through their cover. But what I had observed, we actually tend to judge people by its cover. Another situation that I think usually happens in our daily life is :

When we are assigned to do a group work for the first time, how do we look for our group members?[consider that all of u are new & not knowing each other]. I bet that we tend to look for their appearance right?

So....do u think that u agree with what the cartoon had said?

I am not really agree with both quotes nor disagree with them. Becoz both bring the truth. What the human said is true : we cannot judge the book by its cover, because there might be some reason why people are acting such way. But what the cartoon said is also agreeable because that is what most people have done. To judge people through their cover before knowing the 'content'.

So..what's ur opinion?

;)

smile~

2011-10-12T01:15:00.002+08:00

Pheww~it has been quite some times I didn't update my blog...
why?hmm 40% because of the busyness, 30% because of the emptiness(brain), 40% because of the laziness...hehe

Actually there's nothing much I wanted to share now...'coz I'm still busy with my final examination. But I would like to share the chitchatting with my friend just now. The conversation went like this :

A : Hey, I got one question!
B : Ya, what's that?
A : Why do you think people called their ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend with the 'EX' in front?

Then I started to think. Few minutes later..

A : I don't know.But in the dictionary, that 'EX' means a former partner in a relationship.
B : logically??
A : I don't have any idea...so what's the answer??
B : the answer is.......because 'EX' is the short form of 'EXPIRED' haha so..logically u won't use any expired thing right??
A : True~true~ :-/ [imitating annoying orange] XD

~Joke for the day~

Most complicated, yet....

2011-07-05T01:15:00.001+08:00

It never talk, yet we have to listen,

It lives with joy, yet creates sad as companion,

It can fall and broken, yet never stop to work,

It is full of thorn, yet keep the most valuable treasure,

It brings confusion, yet make the most suitable decision

we only own one, yet very hard to handle..

----- ----- ----- ----- -----

H ----- ----- ----- T

What's the missing letter????

----- E A R -----

Conclusion :::

Heart is the ear of feelings. Heart hear your feeling. Heart know how is your feeling. So,trust heart. 'Coz heart listen to all feelings.

Love is always beautiful wen it is true…..

omg!lagu best n catchy!^^,

Listening vs hearing~

2011-07-02T15:28:00.003+08:00

Oh what a great day to be enjoyed with! Malaysia's summer + listening to dis song repeatedly ....listening okay..not hearing. So what's the big deal of dat??? Well...not a big deal actually, saja suka2 hati to highlight those words..hahak. Okay2..actually, during my favourite class last friday, we did discuss 'bout these two things in class. My lecturer even gave us a quiz on 'what is the differences between listening and hearing?' and I was kinda excited to answer it eventhough I wasn't really sure what is or are the differences would be. So I juz hentam la,as long as the quiz is answered...=))

But few things that my lecturer told us 'bout the differences are :

Listening :: is something you consciously choose to do. Listening requires concentration so that your brain processes meaning from words and sentences. Listening leads to learning.We have to understand the deep meaning of the message conveyed, we interpret the hidden meaning of the message, we take it as a thing that leave something in our heart as well as our mind.Most people tend to be hard of listening. And there is a research on marriage failure where it is because of both husband and wife do not listen to each other.

While...

Hearing :: is simply the act of perceiving sound by the ear. If you are not hearing-impaired, hearing simply happens.Hmm..hearing also occured when someone is talking to you..n you buat don't know...;))

Sekian sahaja sesi pembelajaran kita hari ini.

Mode :: -sharing knowledge-

Nature~

2011-06-20T00:39:00.001+08:00

Hmm..I keep thinking about dis thing actually quit sumtimes which makes me jump to a conclusion dat human n nature do have similarities especially to our heart. Kan2???

Okay...I start with the SKY :::

Sky is blue. It has many clouds. White pure clouds dat decorate the sky. Sometimes black clouds come.It destroy the beauty of the sky. But after sometimes, the sky begin to clear again. And sometimes,the rainbow will appear to increase the beauty of the clear sky.

Heart is like the sky, the emotions in it is the clouds. We have so much emotions within ourselves. Happy,sad,angry,curious,fear and so on. Black clouds is the sadness dat we experience. It will destroy the happiness.But there r reasons why we have to experience it.So dat we will appreciate the beauty of the heart,like how we appreciate the appearance of the rainbow-not always but enough to make us happy.

Next is SAND :::

Sand is never apart from sea. It is always there eventhough the huge wave come. The huge wave might change the structure of the sand a little bit, but it is usually changed to a better structure.

Love is like sand.It will wait for the person dat are meant to be together eventhough there are many obstacles come. In love, both people have to face a lot of things..where the things actually strengthen their love for a better future.

Okay...thirdly is PATH :::

There are long and short path. There are many things we can see along the path. There are stones, grass,bump,flowers and so on.To reach a destination..the short path is always chosen. But sometimes there are advantages in using the long path, so dat we can enjoy the journey.In every path, we left our track. We will use the same path again and again,but we might have different experience for each of it.

In life...there are many ways to succeed. Some people might success easily and some might not. Some will experience many things before they succeed and some might not.If we fall into such category,then dont be sad. 'Coz life is giving us chances to enjoy the journey. And remember dat every experience we have are valuable. So,appreciate it. =)

WoRdS~

2011-06-20T00:38:00.001+08:00

"words can make deeper scars than silence can heal"

Ever heard of dat quotes above???for sure rite??eventhough it is not exactly like what u hv heard before, but the meaning might be similar.

Soo...what do u think about it???Is it true dat words can make a deep scar?? well for me...I do say YES + hundred thousands millions trillions agree with this quotes. It is true that words can make a deep scar in us. It will left deeper scar than action did.Especially when the person dat utter the words has meaning a lot to u. But why is it so??? Seems like words is the most powerful thing in the world. Words can hurt, yet can heal.Words can bring the rainbow in our days, yet can bring the storm.Words can tear us apart,yet can unite us together. Words can change us,yet can leave us in fear.S0o0o...why does 'words' has the big impact on us???

Hmmm...well I think, it is because 'words' inherit the 'heart' nature. Why does 'words' inherit 'heart' nature???'coz 'words' are the voice of the 'heart'. And what is the character of the heart dat the words inherit??It is sensitive.So does it makes sense to u???It does kan???ngehngehngeh~=) oh ya...in addition, words also reflects the pictures of our thought. What we think, we speak. What we speak inside the heart,also we utter. But, sometimes people don't believe in words. 'coz people can lie with their words. And people always say dat....with the continuing of dis >>>....but people cannot lie with their heart. Aha!so yg ni apa kes plak??? hohoho~ Okay,maybe the thing is like dis....when the heart say sumthing, it will delivered it to the tongue 1st before the tongue produce the words rite??? Sooo....mayb the tongue has misunderstood the message dat the heart delivered,or maybe the tongue is afraid to speak out the message from the heart or maybe the tongue has exaggerating the message from the heart.So..it is tongue's fault.. ahaha~ [OMG!such a fairytale..haizz~ -___-"].

watch ur thoughts, for they become words,

watch ur words for they become actions,

watch ur actions for they become habits,

watch ur habits for they become character,

watch ur character for it becomes ur destiny...

tralala~

2011-06-20T00:37:00.003+08:00

Hmm...okay..juz wanted to share a simple thing 'bout love...^^,

TRUE MEANING OF LOVE:

If its because of his eyes or his Lips or his great body its not love... Its LUST.

If its because of his intelligence or insight about life its not love... Its ADMIRATION

If its because he cries every time you try to leave. Its not love... Its PITY

If its because he makes you forget to study and sleep. Its not love.. Its INFATUATION...

"LOVE is when you do not know why you seem to be attracted to a person... LOVE has its reason....
and that reason is UNKNOWN"~

p/s : sekadar gmbr hiasan..=))

Wuh~

2011-05-30T02:16:00.001+08:00

Hmmm....while I was tongkat2 dagu looking at the stars n smiling at the moon....suddenly my mind flying looking for his face in my heart. Cewaaahh~ Over la plak kan.....haizz~ -____- hehehe. Okay2...actually I wanted to share sumthing dat I think will make sense to the world of love which is about...love,thihihi~

Well....in love, we do always say to accept our beloved as the way he/she is, rite??? But, y does the broke up happened? Though we oredy accept each other...n invite them to our heart sincerely? My opinion is...

The person might not the right one to handle ur weaknesses.

understand??nope??ok..i'll explain...;))

Love isn't about to accept the beautiful of a person, but also to accept the worse. We are made for each other because only we can handle the weaknesses n the worse in our partner.Have u ever think about that?? It is slightly true kn??or absolutely true??hehe so...it could be summed up like dis...find the person who can accept u at ur worst 'coz that person is the true one that can complete u...^^,

Apa Beza???

2011-05-30T01:15:00.001+08:00

Dis is a request from my fren asking me to write on the differences between 'kawan', 'rakan' & 'sahabat'. Well...it is such a nice topic to be covered...[yg ni rajin la cover kn??topic utk exam?hmm..liat~]hehe.. Hmm I think, it is quit difficult to differentiate between these forms instead of the spelling,rite?? But...for me, dis is how I differentiate them...

"KAWAN" = orang yg kita kenali [secara amnya]

Contoh situasi = We r walking with our mom, suddenly...there's a guy/girl say 'hye' to us...he/she is sum1 dat we know...tp x rapat...then,when ur mom asked....sapa tu??? We do answered with..'kawan', kan2??Cumanyaaaa........dlm 'kawan' ni...timbul plak bnyk terms kwn....mereka2 itu t'diri drpd...kwn rapat, kwn biasa2, kwn susah senang, kwn baik, kwn terbaik selamanya [BFF] ...dan lain2 lg.Yang ni...it depends to u all la how to differentiate.

"RAKAN" = team mate.

Usually..rakan ni biasanya digunakan dlm aktiviti formal or dlm 1 community. Contohnya macam..rakan sekerja, rakan kongsi, rakan kongsi gelap, rakan jenayah, rakan sekelas, rakan sejawat dll. Dis is my opinion la.

"SAHABAT" = term ni meaning dia yg org slalu ckp is...sum1 dat really close to us, after our family...org yg sntiasa ada ketika susah & sng...sgt memahami kta...org yg bnyk b'kongsi suka duka dgn kita.So, people will use dis term utk org2 yg rapat dgn mereka...e.g 'dia tu la sahabat dunia akhirat aku..'hee~

Tapikannnn...for me...doesn't matter la sahabat...or rakan..or teman.,all of them started with 'kawan' kn? We make frens..then it developed to be 'sahabat' n 'teman' as well as 'rakan'. And paling penting...we don't need to emphasize on any of those terms to differentiate our frens. Sebab, dlm hidup ni...kita jumpa dgn ramai org n kita akan share sumthing with those people without realizing it. X kisah la rapat or tak...yg penting,there must be sumthing that we had shared..or share..or sharing together. For the person that go...don't hate, 'coz there is a reason they couldn't make it to be with us in the future...for the person that will come, accept them with all ur heart..n fo the person that stay...appreciate them...^^, peace~

~Exam Mode~

2011-05-24T19:25:00.002+08:00

Waarghh...what a tough short sem!!

After stadi for hours...me look like dis oredy...

Before After

Otak pun exhausted,berasap~~~ hahaha

What to do? Nama pun exam kn??hihik

K dats all..c ya!^^,

~ VS ~

2011-05-20T00:40:00.001+08:00

Okay today we r going to hear some opinion from man and woman thru songs :

1) Irreplaceable

from women side, presented.....Beyonce!!!

from men side, presented...Ne-yo!!!

2) Take A bow

Go Rihanna!!

Oh my! Ne-yo again???

3) Beautiful Girl

well...Sean Kingston!

Yeah!!and dis is from Jojo

4) If I were a boy / girl

wuhuu~ Beyonce again!

Beyonce parody??euwww~

5) Just the way you are

lalala~ Bruno Mars yo!

Oh..si cute Maddi Jane!hihi

Enjoy~enjoy~enjoy~

When you are in LOVE :::

2011-05-18T16:50:00.001+08:00

‎1.When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them.At that moment, you are in love.

2.Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.Then, you are in love.

3.Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival,your phone is quiet.You are desperately waiting for the call!At that moment, you are in love.

4.If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that special someone than other many long e-mails, you are in love.

5.When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the messages in your answering machine because of one message from that special someone, you are in love.

6.When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone.Then, you are in love.

7.You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love.

8.While you are reading this, if someone appears in your mind,then u are in love with that person.

When you know you love someone...just tell the person that you do so..but if the person insist,take it gently 'coz somehow your gentleness will melt his/her heart-

Okay ini hnyalah sekadar joking petang :

Boy: Is your name Google?

girl: NO!!! =( why would my name be Google?

Boy: Because you are everything i'm searching for :)

When a person cries and the first drop of tears come from the right eye, it's from happiness. But when the first roll is from the left, it is pain.. -Psychological Fact =)

*not sure how far is dis true...

oh lagu ini sgt best!^^,

Broken heart~

2011-05-18T00:12:00.001+08:00

It's awful..it's terrible...it's hurt..it's painful...

Those words are usually related to broken heart..

Well...it is true. Broken heart will bring those feelings to you. Sometimes it will make you terribly sick. It will cause you losing your path. It will make you disappear in your own shadow. Until you don't have the strength to pull yourself out...to bring yourself up...to stand again on your own feet. But actually there are many reasons behind the occurrence of broken heart. Eventhough the tears fall forever inside, but there are times it will stop. When you are in this situation, people will advice you to just forget about the past and moving on. It doesn't really care about moving on 'coz we are living for the future and of 'coz we are moving on.Plus, moving on is simple. It is just because of the things that you leave behind which makes it so difficult.

Look for the rainbow in every storm then it will make you realized and grateful for every tears, for every hurt and for every broken heart that you faced. Actually...the scars that left after a broken heart will show how beautiful and strong our heart is. Prove? Have you ever seen a warrior??? He got lot of scars rite?But people do not care much about those scars. What do people care about is the sacrifice that he gave just to defend and make sure people around him are safe. So when your scars occurred because of your sacrifice towards the one you love, then be grateful 'coz you actually have the beautiful and strong heart more than you know.

When the person you love makes you cry a river, then build a bridge and get over it. 'Coz there might be someone waiting for you at the other side of it. Do believe that every loss will be replaced by something. But sometimes, one can not truly experience the beauty of love without enduring the pain that comes with it once it is lost. So..that is why loss happened and broken heart occurred. Yet...broken heart is the only instrument that work. It won't stop working. In fact, everytime it broke it will work better and better.

One thing that I realized about this love thingy is...when you are extremely hoping for something, it will only cause you a loss. Not to say that hoping is bad...but don't put it toooo much since we are aware on how human heart behave-it can change in a second. Tapi tu la kan...slalunya, the best thing for us is usually the hardest thing that we can do. It actually depends on ourselves jugak. Oh..and our mindset also. So....hmm apa kesimpulannya ah? Okay, let it be like this...ermm next time I'll find it....hahaha wargghhh~ BRAIN-CRAMP!! hehe peace!^^,

=)

2011-05-17T15:03:00.002+08:00

lalalala~

Layan~

2011-05-16T22:11:00.002+08:00

Okay...apa tadiii???

Oh ya...wanted to share a story actually...hehe kinda a sweet & touching love story for me...=)

From the very beginning, girl's family objected strongly on her dating
this guy, saying that it has got to do with family background, & that
the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be
with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the
girl loved the guy deeply, she always asked him: "How deep is your love
for me?"

As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to
be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vents
her anger on him. As for him.. he only endured it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to
further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm
not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow
me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your
family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"

The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally
gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got
engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas,
continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone
calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by
a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside
her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum cry,
she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out
of her mouth was just a sigh. She had lost her voice....

The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose
her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out
from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silent
cry. It's still just silent cry that accompanied her. Upon reaching
home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the
phone which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish
to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a
letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent
millions & millions of reply and countless phone calls. All the girl could
do besides crying is still crying.... The parents decided to move away,
hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.

With a new environment, the girl learns sign language & started a new
life.

Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her
friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let
him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of
him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an
invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she
opened the letter, she saw her name on it instead. When she was about to
ask her friend what was going on, she saw the guy standing in front of
her....

He used sign language to tell her, "I've spent a year to learn sign
language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let
me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You." With that, he slipped
the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled......

Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know how
to Give.
Treat every moment as if it's the last day, then you'll know how to
Treasure.

Treasure what you have right now, or else you may regret one day...

Unseen~

2011-05-16T00:14:00.003+08:00

Well...in this life, there are things that we don't realize the existence of them.This isn't about that supernatural thingy okay...this is all about feeling and emotion...^^, something that we can feel..but cannot touch, we can respond to but cannot see, we can speak with but without any voice..

It is kinda a complicated thing when it comes to talk about feeling especially in love 'coz people always come out with variety of interpretation and opinion. But for me, I could say that loving is not easy. We fight to let go, we fight to hold on. It will always accompanied by challenges. Same goes towards life. Trouble will be one of our best friend. It depends on how strong and patient we are to go through with it. Then only we will survive. Like a saying, "best man wins ". Only best MAN???Yiekk..=p haha~ ok well..'man' here refer to general I think- [hu'man'].

Hmm..back to the topic...what is that unseen thing that we did not realize the existence of it actually?
Okay..it's about this...

situation : why do we always cannot get the person we wanted so much in life?

So...? why?

My answer : because that person is not what we needed in our life.

*Spot the difference ===> WANTED and NEEDED.

Know what is the difference?
Okay, let me give you a situation :::

You went to a shopping mall,and you bought all the things that you want. But only few of them that you really need.In addition, that needs is what u really need by that time. What happen to your expenses? Well, u might facing an over-budget situation that will cause u a loss.

So...that is how they relate to each other.
When u didn't get the person u want...don't be sad. 'Coz God knows the loss that u will face with that person in the future. He had created a person that you really need...for the whole entire of your life, where the person is already there in your heart. But we might not realized the existence of them. Plus, time will reveal it slowly...so be patient.
Another saying,

your true love might be the one u less expected to be....so, pay attention...hihik~

Love=Business???

2011-05-12T12:31:00.000+08:00

Well ya...I do think that love and business have the connection with each other...how??Okay let us take a look at them...=)

In business = we think before we buy, we listed down things we want to buy, we choose the best thing among the things.

In love = we think of a person that suit to our heart, we talk about the characteristic, we choose the best for our life.

*

In business = we always have 'kos lepas' for every thing that we bought. Know what is kos lepas?

Ok...'kos lepas' is an economic term..which means, we give up other thing to get the best thing.

In love = we lose something for something better.

*

In business = we trade something [money] to get the thing.

In love = we trade love to get the person.

*

In business = it's risky 'coz we might face the loss.

In love = it's risky 'coz might loss the person we love.

*

In business = it's not stable all the time...sometimes we are at the top, sometimes we are at the bottom.

In love = it's not stable all the time..sometimes we fight, sometimes we fraternize.

Ok enough first...later continue ya!^^,

So simple~

2011-05-08T22:09:00.004+08:00

Never long for anyone from the past. There is a reason why they never made it to your future.

Maybe~

2011-04-22T22:31:00.005+08:00

Wuhuu~ well...in dis entry, I wanted to share a thing which I am kinda observing on for the past few months. It's about the term of 'LOVE IS BLIND'. Actually, what does it means by the word 'blind' here...whereas of course LOVE doesn't have any eye,rite?hee Okla..serius2 -_-" To be honest...through my own opinion la kan....I also believe that LOVE is blind..but only because :::

i) it bumps between two strangers
ii) it fall into anybody

But how does it means if We Are Blinded by Love???

Yup, I think each of us must have seen lots of examples for dis kind of situation rite?

Usually...when people are blinded by love...they will have these symptoms :::

i) they praise their beloved badness
ii) my things are your things
iii) what belongs to me, is belong to you as well....
iv) you smell nice when you are smelly
v) all things are okay

.....and etc..

Hmm...sooo...eventhough love is blind...we should not be blind as well, because since we have a pair of shining eyes and a beautiful heart...why don't we use them to drive love. Bring it to the right path and leads it to the wonderful journey...^^,

Tinta petang~

2011-04-09T16:02:00.003+08:00

Cinta itu sukar..
Cinta itu tidak mudah...
Cinta itu tidak semuanya berjaya...
Kita akan memiliki, tetapi tidak dapat bersama selamanya...
Kita akan bersama, tetapi adakalanya tidak bahagia...
Kita bahagia, tetapi hanya dengan bayang-bayang...
Ada yang memberi, tetapi kita sukar menerima...
Ada yang bersinar, tetapi kita tidak nampak...
Ada yang mengejar, hingga yang dikendong berciciran...
Ia sebenarnya ada disitu...
Ia tidak perlu terus diburu...
Ia akan sentiasa menemani...
Mungkin kita tidak sedar...
Mungkin kita buta...
Mungkin kita tidak ingin...
Tetapi itulah hakikatnya...
Kita perlu menerima...
Kita perlu memberi...
Kita perlu berani...
Kerana cinta itu hanya perlukan dua hati...
Kerana cinta itu hanya perlukan keberanian..
Kerana cinta itu perlukan keikhlasan...
Dan...
Cinta itu perlukan kesabaran...

Why?

2011-04-07T23:14:00.007+08:00

With referring to the above matter [cewah,mcm tulis surat plak kn]...I believe that people usually used that terms when they broke up. Examples of questions???

1) Why did I fall in love with him and her?
2) Why did this happened to me?
3) Why am I so stupid?[because fall in love with the person k...]
4) Why did she/he go for another person?
5) Why did he/she left me?

....bla..bla...bla...etc.

Well...people,

Sometimes, when we broke up...we tend to blame the person who did ask for it without realizing that it might be because of us as well. So, I could say that...hmm...if u broke up..it shows that u might not be the pieces that fit with that person's heart. But, I did read an article which said...if the person left u at 1st, then it is his/her fault...but if he/she leave u again..then it might be ur fault. How far is it true...I am not sure..=) because no matter what, it will always go back to basic..-FATE-. If u r fated with each other, then u will be together. Doesn't matter how much u sacrifice, how much u suffer, how much u hurt..when he/she is belong to u...then she/he will always be. There is a saying which sounds...true love never run smooth. Which means, there will always be challenges in finding true love but at the end..u will get what u want. Those who lost their love, don't worry...'coz how can love be found without losing it???

hehe~

2011-03-25T00:40:00.002+08:00

Okay..while I was busy daydreaming...suddenly I realized that there r soo0o0o many songs which refer to 'September' and 'December'.Why is dat so ah?Why don't use January...or February..or March..or April...or May..or June..or July..or August...or October..or November...?? Wanna see de prove??

::: September :::

antaranya....

1) Walter Huston - September Song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkWn4--RmEk

2) SEPTEMBER SONG - WILLIE NELSON
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7810J78TmbU

3) Earth, Wind & Fire - September
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCMExp55x6I

4) Chris Daughtry - September
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJzBcKM3ZIE

5) Green Day-Wake Me Up When September Ends
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVO8sUrs-Pw

:::December:::

antaranya...

1) Collective soul - december
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6exsatE-DUk

2) Linkin park - my december
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqgAAqCqiBI

3) Counting crows - a long december
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRrbn6f1Cy0

4) Weezer - december
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twne0ZyN__g

5) Taylor swift - back to december
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpQsKD1agW8

6) Anastasia - once upon a december
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzM4YOfuCuw

okey..malas mahu cari sudah...cukup la kn?hehehe~ ;)

F.E.A.R~

2011-03-23T14:12:00.010+08:00

According to the Wikipedia..FEAR is a distressing emotion induced by a perceived threat.Yes, I think dis one is more to external fear,where we can see a thing dat scared us. But here, I wanted to talk more about the fear which the past or accurately, the experience brought to us presently as well as for the future. Usually, fear occurred from the bad experience either from ourselves or from other people. Know how does others' bad experience also effect you?Well dis is how it happens...

A : U know, dat guy juz recovered from coma?

B : Really??y??what happened to him??

A : Serves him rite la,riding the motorbike like hell.That's what he got. U better tell ur son not to involve with dis kind of riding ha.

B : Oh my God!Thank goodness my son is a home-type person.
[dialog sekadar contoh]

This kind of conversation usually involved by two mothers. Yang petang-petang duduk sembang tepi pagar tu,ha dis kind of conversation la. They will talk about their children,mostly.Ok2..back on the track, so....did u see how does others' experience effect us? When we heard about their bad experience, we'll try so hard not to experience the same thing that they experienced. We try so hard to be more careful and we try so hard to be perfect.

"I don't want to be like him/her"

* n dis word will usually echoing from our heart or mind or mouth.

And u know what is the sign of that?????

It is the sign of FEAR!~fear~fear~fear~[echoing] o.o hehehe...

Actually, I purposely write dis entry to talk about fear in life & fear to fall in love. Biasalah kan, kalau b'cerita tu mesti akan melencong. So...without wasting banyak2 time lg, I do realize dat, in life...mostly, we are afraid to CHANGE. Am I rite? Yes![jwb sndri la...hihi]. But it is true...becoz it is so damn hard to change. Even for a little thing. Why ah?It might be becoz of the surrounding, the people's view.Sometimes, we do have the courage and strength to change, but becoz of the words dat people throw to us..we tend to become low self-confidence and we'll forget the intention.See?Kalau macam tu,how can we improve??We change for gud,orang mesti cakap macam2...we change for bad,lagi la kan. But,usually..'change' ni synonym with 'good'.Which means, do change for gud,for the better future.

Take a look at those quotes.Not only 'a' la...take bnyak look pn bole,so dat u'll have the strength to not fear. =D

Well..in love plak, most of us are afraid to fall in love due to the fear of being betrayed and hurt. Yang betray tu..normal la kan,people nowadays -.- , 1 is never enough[sigh~]. Hardly to find the loyal one,but I believe there is.For the hurt, it is good actually to experience it in love. Becoz it sometimes test ur both compatibility. So, don't be afraid. We'll never know until we try.

Haa..mcm quote ni cakap. Who knows? =D

Sooooo...dat's all for now,c ya!^^,

SINGLE???

2011-03-21T00:44:00.006+08:00

-sekadar gambar hiasan-

For those 'singelers' outside,mesti slalu dgr ayat ni kan?

Aiyo,why stil single ah?

Muka ensem @ lawa cmni...takkan single kot?

The question is...

Why??is there any problem of being single?

nope,rite?so don't be shy if u r single. Be grateful eventhough sometimes u feel lonely. Do believe in God that there will owez be someone for u and that is why you are still single, it is becoz u r strong enough to wait for the one that suits u the BEST!^^,

When I asked the same thing to my frenz..I received lots of answers and opinion. Let's take a look at them:::

1st person said:::
Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free till they find someone just as wild to run with them.
*aha...ada betulnya jugak kan??

2nd person said:::
I'm single not because i don't pray for love, i'm single because I DONT PLAY AROUND WITH LOVE.
*yeah,dis 1 i very like!hee

3rd person said:::
I think, therefore I'm single.
*maybe dis is cause by the feeling of terrify to fall in luv again? o.O

4th person said:::
I'm single because I was born that way.
*ini betul2 pasrah ni...;))

5th person said:::
Being single isn’t bad. What is bad is giving up hope on finding that someone special.
*yup3...dats rite!

6th person said:::
When you're single, your pockets will jingle.
*oh means...u won't suffer from kekeringan poket la if single??nah..hihi

7th person said:::
Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you're pretty sexy and you're taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.
*whoooaaa...hehe

8th person said:::
Life is full of attachments, so being single is a state of inadvertent denial.
*heh...funny...;))

9th person said:::
Don’t keep a man guessing too long – he’s sure to find the answer somewhere else.
*so woman??will not la?kukikuki~

10th person said:::
Sometimes you have to stand alone to prove that you can still stand.
*aha..quit interesting..=)

Me said:::
single or double, both brings the gud and bad itself. We couldn't say dat single is better 'coz somehow we need someone to be with us for the entire life,plus we r oso created in pairs. And, we couldn't say dat being double is much better too, 'coz if we r not smart enough to handle two car steering in a car, we might get involve in an accident.peace!^^,

Nice!

2011-03-20T23:40:00.013+08:00

Well...I would like to talk about the hindi muvie dat I admire most in dis entry. Tidak lain dan tidak bukan,it is the.......

jeng

jeng

jeng!

3 IDIOTS!!!!

Okay..dis muvie had been released if im not mistaken 2 years ago..[in 2009] but I only had de chance to watch it dis year [2011] n for those who had watch it earlier...mesti cakap, "ala..dah bekurun dah muvie ni,baru tengok??" kweng3x. But it's okay, since I dun really interested to go to the cinema...then I have to accept the consequence dat I will be a little bit late in updating myself with new released muvie...^^,

Back to the '3 IDIOTS', I could say dat dis is one of the most interesting story, full of motivation, sense of humor, full of emotions, and full of beautiful scenery. One thing dat really make me stunned is the beautiful scenery inside the muvie. Really, I never imagine dat there are lots of beautiful places in India becoz dat country is concealed..erm ok,not concealed...is covered[i think] by the view of crowded n dirty country[dis view is only from me,i mean the person who is lack of geography knowledge n oso bole kata like de frog under de tempurung jgk la...-what a shamed]hehe..so,thanx to '3 idiots' who lifted up the cover of my impolite view.Okay, below are some of the places where the shooting had been carried out in de muvie....

-ladakh-

-manali-

-shimla-

See???they are all nice kan???=D
*Suddenly..Im thinking to put them into my places for honeymoon list..hahak =p

About the story??
Hmm...I could say dat...dis is a story about life, friendship and love. Life will never be wonderful without friends and love. Three bff- rancho,raju & farhan went thru a lot of things during their college life. Rancho is a smart student,but very mischievous n he is interested in engineering. Raju is kinda religious person,not as smart as rancho, very sensitive & macho. While Farhan, very interested in doing photography but forced by his father to do engineering. All of them share a room in a hostel at the Imperial College of Engineering "ICE" and they always make trouble with the president of the college,Professor Viru Shahastrabudhi who is also called VIRUS.Okay, for those who haven't watch dis muvie, it is a recommendation from me for u to watch it[sbnrnya malas mau taip pnjg2]hihi~

C ya~^^,

Journey~

2011-03-05T23:46:00.005+08:00

Aha!Life does bring lots of interpretation from lots of human. So I'm sure that each of us have our opinion towards life,rite? Well for me...life is something precious and it is about tasting experiences. I believe that we have ever heard dis quotes,aren't we?

EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER

And I do agree with it 'coz most of the time, we learn many things from experience.Went through the difficulties in life is actually giving us the chances to taste the deliciousness of life. Okay, maybe it can be said like this...experience is the most difficult food to be found,yet it is the most delicious food we have ever taste[hmmm...lbh kurg mcm tu la].Bad experiences usually require tears, and bad experiences promise happiness,sooner or later...only God knows. Why do we have bad experiences in life? It's because, we are living for the future and to go through the life, we must be strong and mature. And, to be strong and mature, we must have a valuable experiences that teaches us to encourage those kind of characteristic. Bad experiences is also act as the turning point of our life to be better. Only those who didn't realize it will turn to worst.And that is not turning point, it is u-turn. So, don't u-turn yourself. You will never succeed in life.

To be succeed, it requires changes. How you can change?It depends on the experiences that you have been through. Only you yourself know what you should do with you weaknesses. It is not easy to change. And nobody said it was easy beb. But it is not dat hard, as long as you have the strength and determination. Don't feel ashamed of your weaknesses, 'coz everybody has it, only they are seen or unseen. But, do feel ashamed if you couldn't improve your weaknesses 'coz you always have the chances to do so.

EXPERIENCES + CHANGE = NEW LIFE

So, if you wanna feel fresh...do some changes in your life. Not the bad changes ya...'coz if you turn to bad, you will only let your life smell stinky. Choices are yours. Even sometimes we wrongly eat and got food poisoning, it will never happen again 'coz we oredy know how does it feels and that experience made us to be more careful in choosing food.

Love engine~

2011-02-27T15:35:00.006+08:00

Ok, here I wanna write some of the love engine that we usually use especially when we are involved in this kind of condition :

1) single & searching
2) single & crushed into sum1
3) double with the heart full of garden
4) double and complicated
5) juz for fun

Firstly...the traditional one....dlu2 we used to play dis thing..dun tell me that you never play it..=p

[sekadar gambar hiasan]

Jeng3x....mesti anda pernah bermain dgn bnda ini...am i rite???ngehngehngeh...[tp mcm slh plak pengiraan ini,forgot oredy how to count....hee~] we usually play dis when we crushed into sum1 kn??asal suka,mula lah mengira...really wanted to know the love percentage between you & dat person...if you get 70% and above,then it will be considered as ermmm...what's de exact word aa....ermm...both of u hv the chemistry la kononnya. Then..if it is 50% n below...can be considered as..hard to be together.60% plak??so-so la....or..simply say...it refers to the exam grade :

80-100 = A ---> love each other
60-79 = B ---> okla
45-69 = C ---> lebih sesuai utk berkawan
36-44 = D ---> nyawa2 fish
0-35 = F ---> gagal!

p/s : I dunno which exam grade did I follow...but dis is juz for an example...tihihi~

Secondly...we might also use the love engine yg berleluasa di internet,contohnya..

Okeh..dis aunty amora will predict your love life.I am sure that we always wanted to know how our love life will be,kan?? so..don't be shy, aunty amora can predict for you.Eventhough it cannot be trusted enough,but we tend to believe it since it brings happiness towards the heart..rite3x??

Thirdly....dis one is alike the first....calculating the love percentage. It can be found easily in the internet. Kalau malas kira sendiri, use the calculator la kan....maybe it will be more accurate...hoho =p

Fourthly...enjoy spending time answering quizzes on love...tralala~ this can be found either thru internet or magazines.

That's all for now....peace!^^,

The Tourists~

2011-02-20T14:36:00.003+08:00

The movie????

Oh absolutely nope.....=) Actually I juz wanted to share my experience in dealing with the tourists in our country. Like all of us can see....especially at some 'hot places' such as Pasar Seni, KLCC, KL SENTRAL, LCCT, KLIA, BATU CAVES, MELAKA etc...tourists are everywhere!And we, as the Malaysian[some of us la]...bila nampak tourists tu...mesti ada yg cakap...

eh2..org putih la,org putih la..[sambil cuit2 kwn..@ bisik2]-feel excited kn??

Pastu, ada plak yg bole cakap...

Ha..I nak ngorat org putih tu la...I pnya taste mmg foreigner..

Eeee hensemnyaaaa!!/ wow!cantiknya!!!

adoiyaiii~

But then....kita jg perlu rasa bangga sbb...they chose Malaysia as one of their destination either for holiday or working.

Actually...as I started dis semester, my lecturer had assigned us to do a main project for one of my subject and the project was, to interview the tourists. We were kinda excited,nervous, worried...n so on 'coz dis was the 1st tym we had to deal with the tourists moreover it requires us to speak in English.But after all, it was a gud experience because it improved our speaking skills plus our confidence...

{These pictures were taken during the interview...}

A little bit about our interview session...we did prepare some questions which asking about Malaysia and there was 1 question which sounds 'Do yo have any suggestion in order to improve Malaysia's facilities or environment?' that I would like to highlite here 'coz most of their answer were about...

GARBAGE @ LITTER @ RUBBISH!

I did ask them orally instead of asked them to write their answer on the paper and most of them said....

"We saw lots of bins and lots of litter...but, we rarely saw litter in the bin.What we used to see is, litters are everywhere.So, Malaysia might could improve on that."

Hehehehe.....

So, the question is...why do we use to throw rubbish everywhere instead of throw it in the right place???
This video can answer it...jeng3...

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[p/s kpd tuan pny video..sory ye guna tnpa kebenaran..huhuk- 'sharing is
caring' hee~]

daaa~

Catchy2 ya,ya!^^,

2011-02-18T22:52:00.001+08:00

Currently addicted to dis song..pheww~;))

You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
You'd be like Heaven to touch.
I wanna hold you so much.
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive.
You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.

Pardon the way that I stare.
There's nothing else to compare.
The sight of you leaves me weak.
There are no words left to speak,
But if you feel like I feel,
Please let me know that it's real.
You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.

I love you, baby,
And if it's quite alright,
I need you, baby,
To warm a lonely night.
I love you, baby.
Trust in me when I say:
Oh, pretty baby,
Don't bring me down, I pray.
Oh, pretty baby, now that I found you, stay
And let me love you, baby.
Let me love you.

You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.
You'd be like Heaven to touch.
I wanna hold you so much.
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God I'm alive.
You're just too good to be true.
Can't take my eyes off you.

I love you, baby,
And if it's quite alright,
I need you, baby,
To warm a lonely night.
I love you, baby.
Trust in me when I say:
Oh, pretty baby,
Don't bring me down, I pray.
Oh, pretty baby, now that I found you, stay..

Boys like Girls 2~

2011-02-18T02:18:00.002+08:00

Well..as what I've written in the previous entry....I'll share the Guy's part plak...

HOW TO KNOW IF A GUY LIKES YOU [also strictly for GIRLS,ok? ;))]

1) Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say. If he points his shoulders and pelvis towards you while sitting, he is definitely feeling something for you.

2)Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he's around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.

3)Listen to what he's saying. If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.

4)Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. Some guys flirt with other girls to get your attention. It gives them a chance to see your reaction, and helps them know if you really do like them or not. You can tell that they are trying to make you jealous if they find little times when they're flirting with the other girl to look at you. His eyes will flick over and look at you. Another sign is that when you leave, he stops flirting with the other girl. That will be a harder one to pick up on, but you can have a friend to look out for you or something like that. You have to be sneaky sometimes to find out if a guy likes you.

5)Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.

6)Check for signs of nervousness. Signs of nervous laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, fidgeting, or possibly even looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he likes.

7)Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't?

8)Don't ignore him If he shows genuine interest in you, (i.e. smiles at you a lot in the hallway, work, etc., at least go out for a walk.)

9)Look to see if he imitates you. If he mimics you, he probably likes you, such as if you move to another table, he'll go with you. (I've had a guy who liked me mimic me before, so I know this is one thing)

10)Pay attention to teasing. If a guy teases you a lot, it might mean he likes you, but if he doesn't tease any other girl, he probably does like you.

11)If he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm, this may mean he likes you. A guy may hit you but it's just flirting he probably just wants to see your smile You may find it annoying if you're not into him, but otherwise if you hit back then that's a way then he can know that you like him back!

12)Acknowledge any compliments that come your way. If you do your hair or makeup differently one day, and the guy notices, that's a very good sign that he likes you. Most guys won't notice, and if they do, they won't say anything unless they're into you. Anything like, "You look nice today," "I like that shirt," or even "Did you do your hair differently today? It looks nice," are all indicators that he could be interested in you. NOTE: If he's a good friend of yours, these won't necessarily be indicators of romantic interest. It could just be him being a good friend. Not all guys are this straightforward about compliments, so don't be worried if he doesn't compliment you.

13)Watch for him noticing 'masculine things' on you. For example, some of your dad's aftershave rubbed off on you when you hugged him. Your crush may say 'is that aftershave on you?' This indicates he thinks it is from another guy (and not your dad!)

14)If he talks to you on a Social Networking site. If he chats with you often he may like you. He could also just be talkative and friendly so don't assume he's into you for chatting. He may put 'x' on the end of everything he says to you. That might not necessarily mean he likes you. It could just mean that you are good friends. If he says, "I know something you don't know," then this could mean that he likes you and wants you to be guessing. Hr might also want you to know and wants to see if you feel the same way. Or it could just mean he knows something you don't know, e.g. a new colour, the fact that he has a new friend, etc.

15)Watch to see if he is following you in a sneaky way. For example, if you're on table 1, talking to your friends, watch to see if he is close nearby. So when the conversation end, and you go to say, table 7, see if he follows you, but of course does not follow you to table 7 unless he is good friends with the people at table 7 and wants to talk to them coincidentally. Check to see if he stands at a different place when you are at table 1 and 7 to make sure he is following you.

TIPS:

The Clock Test: To see if a guy has been checking you out, abruptly look at the clock, then look at him really fast. If he followed your eyes to the clock, he was staring at you and was startled by your sudden movement that following your eyes is a reflex to them.
If you like him and you are confident, ask him out.
If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in that way. Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character. Or he could be trying to see if you like him.
If his ex hates you, there might be a reason.
If you have a different lunch schedule than him, try "visiting" your friends in that period and pass by him so he knows you are there. If he comes by to sit with you, or "surprises" you by sneaking up on you, talk with him. Then, later, ask your friends if he normally comes over to sit. If he doesn’t, he most likely likes you and wanted an excuse to be near you.
The Pencil Test: If you have a lead pencil, "accidentally" break it. If you ask him to sharpen it for you, and he says "Yes", he could be into you. If he says "No", no hard feelings, he could be shy.
Here's a way to ask him if he likes you without really asking! You can tell a friend to go up to him, look him up and down, and say, 'You and (insert your name) should go out.' If he looks at your friend like he's thinking or nods at her/him, he may be considering the offer. But if he shrugs, or just turns away, don't think he doesn't like you. He may not be comfortable telling your friend if he likes you or not.
You return the favor, too! If he winks at you, let him know you know what that means by smiling, laughing, etc.#
If you notice him walking behind you in the hallway, continue to walk in front of him and pretend to not know he's there. If he likes you, he may try to catch up to you and make it seem like a casual "Hello."
Notice how he acts around his friends. Now, do he act the same with you around?
awkward look you may be in a room without a clock at some time in your life. if you think he is looking at you ,or you just want to make sure, look at him real quick-like and if he seems to stare at you for a moment longer and then acts like he's staring at everyone for a moment around you, you may have a "Admirer"
Guys that are really smart (not nerds) might have a lower self image and automatically think you don't like them even when you are flirting a lot with them try to ask them to help you with something like schoolwork or work to get them into their playing field then compliment them on their smarts. This will make them feel better about themselves and begin to like you more and may give them the courage to ask you out.
Just ask him out! He might be waiting for you to make the move or to ask him out. This happens a lot with shy guys. If he rejects, don't take it personally. He's not worth your time.
Does he talk about you to his friends? there is no harm asking his friends if he does, if he does talk about you often this can only be a good thing. When asking his friends try not to make it obvious that you are interested that way they won't suspect anything.
Watch where he sits in class. If he's sitting in your seat when you come back from break or a weekend, then he may like you. Just politely ask him to move. I've noticed that my crush wants to sit near me in the one and only class we have together. It may be a hint that he likes you if he is around you a lot.

WARNINGS!!! :

If you look at him a lot, he might look at you just to see if you're looking at him and not because he likes you.
Remember that if you like someone you can sometimes misread their signals in the hope that they like you back. For instance, a guy who teases you in an affectionate way may act like that towards everybody and doesn't realize that he's making you swoon every time he pokes good-natured fun at you!
Watch out for the subtle guys. If he asks you something that could potentially be a date but you're not really sure, make sure it's clear before you agree to it. It can be uncomfortable when one of you thinks you're on a date and one of you thinks you're not.
The wrong kind of guy might say he likes you without meaning it; if this is the case, he probably wants to see how far you would go with him, for any of those activities (whatever they may be) themselves and for bragging rights among his friends.
Don't ask your friends to ask him if he likes you. He might not be truthful and tell your friends that he doesn't like you. It doesn't work 99.999% of the time.
He doesn't look in your eyes when talking to you. If he focuses more on your body, be careful, he may not like you for you. He could just be looking for a "good" time.
This is from a guy: DO NOT ask a guy what he likes in a girl or get to be real close friends with him (by flirting etc.) just to eventually learn if he likes one of your friends. This guy might begin to like you and when you ask him it kind of turns him down automatically because he sees what you have been doing. This may lead him to hold a lower opinion for you and your friend so it was a loss for the both of you.
Don't assume a guy likes you just because he talks to you. He may just be being friendly.

[Oh,my!Now I wonder...between boys and girls..mana lebih sukar difahami???-thinking 8-> ]

As a conclusion...

U urself know urself,
U urself know ur feeling,
U urself know ur heart,
U urself know whom u r falling into,
U urself know who is the best,
and let the time answer the calling of the love between u and that person....

~sekian~

Boys like Girls 1~

2011-02-18T01:15:00.004+08:00

Ok...this is juz a 'sharing is caring' entry from me which might catch ur eyes or maybe ur little attention 'coz it is kinda outdated topic,[i think la] but still...interesting!hihi~ well...talking about feeling...I've found that there are many common things that we can see within boys and girls. But what are the things??hmmm...Iiiii...am...quit not sure...hehe [great excuse from a lazy to-write person] =D=D=D ok3..actually I wanted to share some info about......................

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HOW TO KNOW IF A GIRL LIKES YOU [strictly for GUYS only ya!];))

1) Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. If you like a girl, don't let her slip away, tell her the truth, but if you don't like her and she told you that she does, don't say anything...it can break her heart. And when she tells you that, and, you don't like her, tell her that she's a great person. Girls like it when boys say they like something that they did or either said you're great at something. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little more soft, and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping), adjusting her clothes, and might stare at you. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at only your boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy dork.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot because she is thinking of funny, nice gossip.

2) Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirting girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Although some girls have no idea they are flirting. Most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirting ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you. And she has nothing you like or she doesn't act the way you like girls.

3) Notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you more often than what people do (she's obviously trying to touch you or feel how strong or soft you are). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. Tell her it was okay and you're fine. But conversely, don't assume that she doesn't like you because her fall didn't touch you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself. She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to the body.

4) Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you. Some girls might just be staring so don't think she loves you and wants to kiss. But if she holds the stare, and you see love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction.

5) Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. So you should probably listen to stuff like, "stop teasing me!" or "be quiet! He might hear!!" When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date me or (her name), who do you like better, who is the hottest, would you marry (her name) or me, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.

6) Look out for the damsels in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, look for her mad and tell her that who ever she likes gave it to him to give it to her. In which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.

7) Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, she is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.

TIPS :

If she constantly asks about your status with girls and asks your preference in types of girls, then she is likely fishing to see if she might meet your interests.
If you find out that a girl likes you, don't act like she is from another planet or has the flu. Girls don't like it and their hearts can be very fragile, so be careful. Don't be mean or give her the cold shoulder because IF you do end up liking her eventually, she may not give you another chance. Also, that kind of mistake can mess up your reputation as being a good boyfriend.
A lot of shy girls usually won't admit that they like you unless they know that you like them too, so if she denies it to someone not close to her, don't lose hope! If you like a girl, ask to become friends. If she is interested, then obviously there is something there. If she objects to a friendship, don't take it personally, as there are plenty of other girls out there.
Do something nice like cleaning something up for her or doing her a favor. Then see how she reacts. If she eventually tries to do something nice to you back, this might be a hint that she likes you.
If she asks you to go out and do something with her only or with another couple, this may indicate that she is trying to send you the message that she wants to be more than friends.
Always be yourself. If a girl likes you for someone who wears expensive clothes, and you don't, then just don't date her.
While there are certain body language signs that have commonly been associated with a girl "liking" a guy, do not get too excited just because she exhibits some. Body language is not completely universal, some girls exhibit their feelings through different actions than others. Take your time, find out if she's actually interested by talking to her. A girl that's not interested will likely try and make excuses to end the conversation and get away from you.

WARNING!!!:

Girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone - she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard. And as much as you may want to...don't EVER do the same thing back. Girls are more sensitive and will probably just give up on you if you do that.

Okay,we finished with the Girl's part.
For guys??I'll share in the next entry ya, 'coz it will be a veryyyy long entry if I juz put it here...and...it might loosen ur attraction for dis entry..hihih c ya~ ^^,

Tenses~

2011-02-13T22:52:00.004+08:00

hmm....well...the title doesn't really tell you about TENSES which relate to GRAMMAR but it is actually about LOVE and it does make sense that TENSES n LOVE are likely related to each other. Since I do like to write about love...so, most of the time my post will be written linking to Love...;)) most of the time ya...not all the time...=D k back to the title...I know each of us must have learn about English Grammar in school especially the TENSES thingy. If you forget what is dat thing called TENSES, let me remind u with pleasure....:

Example of tenses :

-Present tense
-Past tense
-Present Perfect tense
-Past Prefect tense
-Future perfect tense
-Continuous tense

You remember now???Good!

So...the concept that I wanted to emphasize here is somewhat like PAST,PRESENT and FUTURE plus related to LOVE. I believe that most of us must ever experience to fall in love, to break up and to fall in love again. Whether it is in an official relationship or not, still it can be considered like that. 'Coz...there is time we might fall in love with a person, and we never told him/her 'bout that...but we do keep tracking him/her everyday until he/she has someone special then only we move on to another person...or in a simple word..it's a crushed[heee~]

Tapikan...sometimes....love starts with crush kn?? and most of the times it started with friendship. But, no matter how does it started, the matter is...the person we love has the same feeling towards us would be the most wonderful matter that happened in out life. Ok..back on track...so..if u have the experience to fall in love before...that is called Past tense.Let me do the table 'coz I'm too rajin now....^^,

Matter	Tenses
Fall in love before and broke up	Past tense
Having an affair with someone now	Present tense
Met someone that we crushed into	Future tense
Our ex that is still keeping in touch with us	Present Continuous Tense
Our ex that is still sticking in our mind but missing in action	Past Continuous Tense
The one that we are with now	Present perfect tense
The one that we realized was the best person after the broke up	Past perfect tense
The one that we live for and the most suitable for our soul	Future perfect tense

Ehem..does it make sense???hehe...no worries, dis is just for fun...I'm sure that all of us know how to take care of love, rite??

Love is like energy. It can never be created nor destroyed...it is juz owez there. You juz have to realize dat fact n you have to learn that as soon as you stopped loving him in the way you did dat love left to somewhere else. Now all you have to do is find out where dat love went. That love went to whoever the next person in ur life will be. That next person could be one of your friends or someone u might dislike or someone that suddenly appear to u after a long absence, you juz have to find that out.

Sweet words from a friend~

2011-02-12T22:21:00.003+08:00

Juz wanted to share some sweet words from my fren...^^,

A Friend...
(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over
(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
(O)ffers support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits
(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you
(W)alks beside you
(X)-plain things you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality.

Nice, kn?

Tomorrow~

2011-02-10T01:04:00.012+08:00

Defining 'T O M O R R O W'.......

= too-more-rows?

does it make sense???yup, i think so....it is like we have more things to do ahead...more rows to go through, more journey to be experienced with and more things to be discovered.

How does yesterday be important to us, it is the same with today and tomorrow. We must know what happened in the past to understand the future. And the present will help us to unravel the things.Your life today is the result of your attitudes and choices in the past, and your life tomorrow will be the result of your attitudes and choices you make today.Worrying about tomorrow is a regular feature that all of us faced.Because tomorrow won't promise anything. Every single thing won't wait for tomorrow to change. It can always change within a second.Changed like beaches that hit by waves, changed like the heart that hit by mess.

Is worrying about tomorrow equals to worrying about who will be your life partner in the future???

Well...as what we already know, we couldn't predict our future. Even in the schools and universities they also didn't provide such subject or course that requires us to learn how to predict our future. Did I wrote FUTURE???oh yup..so that means......our equation has the prove...which is...

=> Future = tomorrow / tomorrow = future, life partner = future/ future = life partner

=> tomorrow = future = life partner

=> tomorrow is the future where we will get our life partner.
so,

=>we r worried about tomorrow,we r worried about our future n we r worried to think about our life partner.

Answered!^^, =p

I think, most of us that ever had an experienced in love relationship that broke in the middle of the road = putus di tgh jln ( direct translation ) must felt insecure, scared, broken, lack of trust, and all those negative feelings that actually influenced us not to fall in love anymore. But somehow, as a NORMAL human....we do need someone to be by our side, to take care of our heart, to be loyal with our love, and to live happily ever after like every fairytale did. Unfortunately, we don't live in fairy land and there will be no fairy tale in reality :-< . But it is not a big deal since we were given the strength and courage within ourselves. And that's how we started to do our comeback.

Sometimes, we need to stop analyzing the past...stop planning the future, stop trying to figure out precisely how we feel, stop deciding with our mind what we want our heart to feel and sometimes we just have to go with " whatever happens,happens..."or in simple way, "just go with the flow".But, if we just go with the flow...and not turning to the left or right, I'm afraid that we will miss the very little wonderful thing that we might passed by. So, I think..I will add some words into this famous quotes which sounds....DON'T GO WITH THE FLOW STRAIGHT NO BELOK2...[hmm..naah..worst quote that I've ever heard!]. It's okay, as long as all of you can understand it...tihihi~

Ok..going back to the love thingy. I do believe that most of us r waiting for the right person. And most of us also must ever heard or said these things, rite?[for singles]~

"...what to do, no one will fall in luv muka mcm I ni..."
or
"..i'm waiting for my prince charming / my princess charming.."
or
"...no jodoh yet la.."
or
"...malas la nk pkir..."

Sounds like.......hmm upset..hoping..pasrah..n what so ever kn??Actually, being single doesn't mean that u have lots of weaknesses, but in a positive way...it shows that u r strong enough to wait for your true love. Meanwhile, God doesn't give the burden beyond your capabilities. He might wants you to learn...to experience and to improve yourself before you found the true one. So, don't feel too humble of yourself...'coz one might see the beautiful within you.

Ok..that's all for now..!

c ya!^^,

The Best Thing~

2011-02-08T00:34:00.003+08:00

There was one fine day I had an evening walk nearest the melodious lake where suddenly I found a paper which contained a very touching talk between a boyfriend and his girlfriend.

Girlfriend : What's up with the absence?
Boyfriend : Did you missed me?
Girlfriend : I really do.
Boyfriend : I'm sorry. I just cannot handle it when I saw you talking with another man.
Girlfriend : Dear, they are just my friend!
Boyfriend : I know.I'm sorry for being too jealous.I was just afraid that I will lose my key to your heart.
Girlfriend : Sweetheart, I just want you to know that I love to speak gently with my friends,not only boys..but also girls. But, it doesn't mean that I wanted to flirt with them.I don't
want you to think bad about me. Even though I used to talk like that, I never simply
used that sacred word that I only keep for the special person that is you.
Boyfriend : [sigh]...What is that dear?
Girlfriend : I LOVE YOU.
Boyfriend : Thanks dear..=') I LOVE YOU MORE.

Ouh this is so sweet!8->

p/s : enjoy the song!^^,

Hang On For Hope~

2011-02-04T01:42:00.005+08:00

You fall for the words, you fall for the smile, you fall for the deeds and you fall for the eyes.I wonder whether it is enough for you to fall in love with the person that you already fall for those things. Somehow, love won't fall because of many things but it is basically fall for only one thing,which is also called Love. Love is fall towards love because only love can understand love.You will not find love if, the person that you love doesn't have the love for you. Or...in an easiest words, you are not the key of the person's heart.I know it is hard to find the right key that suits you heart's door. Just imagine that you are asking to find a very special sand,in sand and that shows how hard it will be. Well, in that case...you must follow your heart and instinct. Because most of the human said that heart has the very powerful instinct among the other parts or organ in our body.But I am not sure whether the doctors have discovered about it or not...hee =D I believed that every single person in this world had an experience falling in love or at least get crushed with someone and you know how does it feels, don't you??yeah...it is so0o0o0 wonderful a.k.a wonderful to the max!^^, eventhough it does bring the bitter, but most of the memory will always be the sweeter. Okay, enough of these aimless mumbling, I don't really know what I wanted to write actually...but hope this will not make you feel that you are wasting time reading my entry...jeng3!

Boy: Are you asking me to wait?

Girl: I’m, are you going to?

Boy: I am.

Girl: I’m happy but I don’t know if things are going to be like I
think, like I dream them to be. I’m scared to lose you,

Boy: (holding her close) I promise things are going to be like
you once dreamed them to be, I just wish to be in your
dreams.

Girl: You know you are in my dreams.

Boy: (smile) Please can you look me in the eyes?

Girl: (looking at him directly through the eyes In a cute smile)
Please say something.

Boy: I love you.

Girl: (starting to get eyes watering) I love you too.

Boy: What do you want in life?

Girl: Nobody had ever asked me that too me before.

Boy: Do you have an idea?

Girl: I just want to be happy.

Boy: What will your happiness made of? Am I included?

Girl: I believe it would be made of loving and been love, doing
what I love the most, that my family is safe, healthy and
together and that someday I can have you in my life.Are you in love with me?

Boy: I’m deeply in love with you.

Girl: But why? I know I’m not perfect and that I have a lot of
things that we argue about.

Boy: Love is not easy… It’s special, is happiness, sadness, it’s
kind, joy, it’s sincere, you can feel a lot of emotions getting
together when we are in love. I feel all of those emotions and
more when I’m with you.

Girl: That’s really sweet.

Boy: I mean it.

HOPE, will always come when we fall in love with someone. We are hoping that he or she will accept our love, we are hoping that the person will share the rest of his/her life with us and we are hoping for a true love that will lasts forever. Love is not easy to be understood eventhough it is kinda easy to fall, but love..will be understood with two heart by time and patience.

Love is about TRUST~

2011-02-02T02:12:00.003+08:00

TRUST is like the pillar in every relationship.When there is no trust, it will be hard for you to focus on the thing that is going on.In fact, before we give our heart to somebody,we must have the trust towards the person that he or she can hold our heart carefully, 'coz heart is the instrument that has no spare part when it is broken. And if you want to fix it after the broken, for sure it will have lots of scars.But, the scars will always gone by time.And it will also healed by true love.For those who had experience it,must feel the difficulty to trust.Because it will take much time to build it up,but only a wink to destroy.So that, for those who are going to flirt...please make sure that, you are sincere enough with your heart. Some person might have the instinct that you are just playing around,and...it will be a big mistake if you found that the person is actually the angel that you have been looking for all this while.

Okay..let us go to another topic. Like leprechauns and unicorns the search for true love can seem like a fantasy that will never come true, but rest assured, you will find "the one" one day. In fact, as you head down the path of life you are likely to find a few "the ones", that is you are likely to fall in love more than once. How can you tell the difference between love-right-now and the-right-and-true-love? You can't really. Each and every time you fall in love it will feel like the real and final deal and it will be true. Every relationship will have something important to offer you and none, no matter how painfully they may end, will be a waste of your time. Each relationship will teach you a valuable lesson about yourself, your capacity to love, and what you are looking for (and not looking for) in a partner. So how can you tell if the person you are with is worthy of your "true love"? How can you know when a crush has moved beyond lust and in to the realm of love? Remember, the idea of one true love is romantic but unrealistic. Open your heart to the idea of loving more than one person in your life, think of these relationships as test runs for the final true love, the person you end up spending your life with, and live in the moment. If you get tunnel vision and become obsessed with finding the mystical and magical "one" he or she may just pass you by.

1.1.'11~

2011-01-01T22:36:00.009+08:00

Weee~
Dis year was started with the trip to Batu Caves by four of us...me,oco[kazen],viel & yen-the housemates.It was fun and enjoyable.Nothing much to say...but below are some of the picture taken during the trip.

3 pictures above were taken during the arrival.And we love those pictures 'coz we were like snapping them abroad.tihihi~

Okey...this was the climbing.

during the climbing.warghh~it was tiring but.......

...we managed to climb up to the top.Yeah!!hoho~

sekian,tengkiu~^^,

Best!

2010-12-25T20:37:00.003+08:00

I felt soo0o0o lucky today 'coz I've learned something new [ eventhough the 'thing' is actually existed long time ago ]. It's me who just discovered about it today and the thing was about SHORTHAND. I've heard of it long time ago,but along that time...I'm very sure hundred percent that shorthand means short form.That's why I don't really care about that.But the thing is, my view was totally wrong.And shorthand is all about symbol or sign of a language. It means that, we write a sentence using symbols. When I first saw it, I felt very excited 'coz I'm a person that kinda interested in those thing.Here's the example of shorthand :

The aunty that told me about this thing said,they have to pass this subject during her diploma. I was wondering what is the importance of it nowadays. But I forgot to ask 'coz I was busy reading the book.For me, shorthand is an interesting thing to learn yet it is difficult.

BlaBla~

2010-12-09T22:26:00.002+08:00

Sometimes,we do feel tired and bored in chasing love.Sometimes,we feel like giving up.Sometimes we just wanted to go back to our 'single' life and sometimes we feel hatred of being cheated by love....but,most of the time...we do need love.Not for 'sometimes',but for 'every time'.Love is never decide to be ended with happiness.Because love can also end with sadness.But,true love will always end with happiness.When you are getting tired in love,try to close your eyes for a short nap.And then wait for your true love to wake you up.It doesn't matter how long you have to wait,'coz it's worth.When you are bored in a relationship,try to go back to how it started.'Coz the beginning might always be the most memorable sweet moment.Holding back may cause you missed the valuable thing but do make sure that it is love,not a lust or crush. How to know whether it is love?Ask your heart,'coz it has the good recommendation for you.^^,

^^,

2010-11-28T02:01:00.002+08:00

Sudah termaktub untuk kita menemui insan baru dalam setiap fasa kehidupan yang telah dan akan kita lalui.Mungkin insan-insan itu tidak akan bersama kita buat selamanya,tetapi mungkin juga insan-insan itu akan sentiasa berada di samping kita untuk melalui suka duka pelayaran hidup ini.Walaupun bukan takdir kita untuk bersama mereka,kenangan yang pernah tercipta tetap akan bersemadi di jiwa.Untuk insan yang bercinta,sudah pasti ada kecewa.Untuk keindahan yang tercipta,sudah pasti ada duka.Duka itu tidak pernah menjadi idaman setiap insan.Tetapi kerana duka itu melahirkan bahagia..maka duka itu akan tetap menemani,walau jauh mana kita berlari.Bicara hati,walaupun sukar didengari...tetap akan menyemai sanubari.Tetapi hanya pada insan yang terpilih.Jika kamu ditakdirkan untuknya,maka kamu adalah insan itu.Jika tidak,teruskan berlayar...lihatlah luasnya dunia,gapailah segala impian,carilah ilmu dimana jua kerana apa yang pasti...kamu tetap akan menemui cinta sejati.Jangan pernah berdendam,atas segala kesalahan...jangan pernah mengungkit atas segala kesilapan...kerana kita hanya manusia,yang penuh dengan kealpaan.Cinta tidak semestinya memiliki,cinta juga tidak semestinya berakhir dengan bahagia...tetapi yang pasti cinta itu akan terukir dengan indah,yang akan mengajar kita untuk menggapai bahagia dan akhirnya akan membuat kita merasa dimiliki dan memiliki...

ALMOST by Tamia~

2010-11-26T00:46:00.001+08:00

Can you tell me
How can one miss what she's never had
How could I reminisce when there is no past
How could I have memories of being happy with you boy
Could someone tell me how can this be
How could my mind pull up incidents
Recall dates and times that never happened
How could we celebrate a love that's to late
And how could I really mean the words I'm bout to say

I missed the times that we almost shared
I miss the love that was almost there
I miss the times that we use to kiss
At least in my dreams
Just let me take my time and reminisce
I miss the times that we never had
What happened to us we were almost there
Whoever said it's impossible to miss when you never had
Never almost had you

I cannot believe I let you go
Or what I should say I should've grabbed you up and never let you go
I should've went out with you
I should've made you my boo boy
Yes that's one time I should've broke the rules
I should've went on a date
Should've found a way to escape
Should've turned a almost into
If it happened now its to late
How could I celebrate a love that wasn't real
And if it didn't happen why does my heart feel

I missed the times that we almost shared
I miss the love that was almost there
I miss the times that we use to kiss
At least in my dreams
Just let me take my time and reminisce
I miss the times that we never had
What happened to us we were almost there
Whoever said it's impossible to miss when you never had
Never almost had you

(sometimes I wanna rub ya, some nights I wanna hug ya)
And you seem to be the perfect one for me
You (some nights I wanna touch ya but tonight I wanna love ya)
You're all that I ever wanted
And you're my everything yes its true
Boy its hard to be close to you
My love
I know it may sound crazy
But I'm in love with you

I missed the times that we almost shared
I miss the love that was almost there
I miss the times that we use to kiss
At least in my dreams
Just let me take my time and reminisce
I miss the times that we never had
What happened to us we were almost there
Whoever said it's impossible to miss when you never had
Never almost had you

I missed the times that we almost shared
I miss the love that was almost there (sometimes I wanna rub ya)
I miss the times that we use to kiss
At least in my dreams
Just let me take my time and reminisce (but tonight I wanna love ya)
I miss the times that we never had
What happened to us we were almost there
Whoever said its impossible to miss when you never had
Never, never almost had you (but tonight I wanna love ya)

such a nice love song!^^,

Tinta malam~

2010-11-23T00:55:00.003+08:00

Hening malam itu,ku duduk sendirian..berbicara padamu bulan,buat kesekian kalinya. Ku sering bertanya padamu,adakah dia juga mempunyai perasaan yang sama?Adakah dia juga merasa apa yang ku rasa?Dan kau selalu memberi jawapan dengan senyuman.Di mana bintang-bintangmu kemudian akan membuat satu formasi kata yang indah berbentuk "mungkin", dan itu sudah cukup membuat hatiku riang.Rasa yang dia zahirkan seringkali mengusik khayalku.Membibitkan kembali kenangan lalu agar terus bercambah diingatan.Ku tidak betah untuk menghalang,malah ku lebih rasa seronok begitu.Kadangkala,rasa ini ingin ku bawa ke realiti,walau hanya mampu ku fantasikan di alam mimpi.Mungkin juga kita punya hati yang sama.Menunggu siapa harus memula.Mungkin juga kita sudah berpunya,walau tidak tahu siapa.Mungkin juga kita keliru,dan terus membiarkan teka-teki itu berlalu.Dan mungkin juga kita harus memulakan langkah,mana tahu penghujungnya sesuatu yang indah....=)

Human vs Book~

2010-11-19T20:27:00.004+08:00

Get closer with a heart is just as easy as reading a book,but understanding it is not easy as we wanted to understand the gist of a book.Human,can sometimes be compared as a book.Means,they have different title [name],different cover & colours [our physical],different story [the journey of human life] and different characters [our variety behaviour,manner or style]. In every book,there must be a conflict,sadness and happiness.Same goes to our life. Whether it is bad or good,only God knows.But,there are still few things that differentiate us with book.As a human,we must be prepared for anything that will come in the future.We don't and will never know what will happen next 'coz real life is full of surprises. But,by reading a book...we can always jump to the end of the story and know how it ends directly.In real life,we couldn't turn back time.But we can always read a book again and again.Whether we want to read it from the beginning to the end,or form the back to the front...it's up to us.In real life,we will meet new things everyday.But book have the same story not even a day...but for the entire time.Going back to the similarity of human and book is that,we couldn't change the past 'coz it's already written that way and most of them have the beautiful as well as pleasant end.Looking into our real life,it does make a sense because we often wish that we could go back to the past and change it.But we can't.Because it is already written like that and that is why the book have a very good story and satisfactory ending.Be grateful and be thankful.Every storm has it rainbows and every tunnel has it light at the end of it.^^,

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2010-09-27T23:45:00.004+08:00

Kenapa bila kita tidak mahukan cinta,ia datang bagaikan sungai mengalir?kenapa bila kita mahukan cinta,tidak ada satu pun yang singgah?Benarlah kata orang,cinta tidak perlu dicari...ia akan datang sendiri.Cinta ibarat rama-rama,terbang bila kita mengejar....hinggap tanpa kita sedari. Mengapa bila cinta itu datang...kita tidak mampu menerima?mengapa bila cinta itu hadir,kita sentiasa menafikan?kerana kata orang,cinta itu buta.Kita sibuk menanti apa yang kita inginkan,apa yang kita mahu miliki...sedangkan insan yang istimewa itu hanya ada di depan mata, yang sengaja kita kaburi.Bagaimana perlu kita tahu dia adalah orangnya?Bagaimana harus kita ketahui apakah keikhlasan itu benar-benar datang dari hatinya?Seperti kata orang,ikutlah kata hati.Kerana hati tidak mampu menipu.Sekuat mana pun kita menolak..hati akan tetap kuat mengatakannya.Hati yang luka,sukar menerima.Hati yang hancur,bisa kabur melihat cinta.Kerana hati itu sudah penuh dengan kedukaan.Khabar hati,lihatlah pada wajah.Andai ianya berseri,maka ada pelangi yang menyinari.Andai ia suram,hujanilah dengan panah cinta agar ia bisa kembali mekar.

wonder....~

2010-07-20T17:44:00.004+08:00

I always wondering about these 3 things about Love....

1) why do some people are somewhat like ashamed to reveal that they oredy have sum1 special in their life....[means sum1 to be her/his future husband/wife].Doesn't it looks like that they are not confident with the relationship or they only wanna have fun or they juz wanted to have sum1 by their side aimlessly???for Love is not to be fooling around...hmm but maybe they have their own secret purpose on doing that...who knows????

2) why men[not all of them la] are likely to find another girl though he obviously have a girlfriend???such a hunter crocodile...haha [but women oso sometimes could be like dat]~

3) why is it when we have problems in a relationship,we tend to find sum1 else that is reserved for replacement rather than try to solve it together???my advice...when u r involve in this situation...no matter how hard it is..try to solve it first.If both of u r not fit anymore,then only go with ur own way....

As a result,it is quit difficult to find sum1 dat is really2 single & available nowadays...haha ^_^

One fine day~

2010-07-17T02:16:00.003+08:00

Whoaaa...it's been a long tym since I posted my last entry about the... what aa...ala,it's not important anyway....hurmmmm...well...in dis post...I would like to talk about the best ever after topic in my life which is all about LOVE.It was a very suitable tym for me to write about it tonite, accompanied with the touchy song from missy higgins-where I stood[what a nice song! ^_^ really luv it!].Okay...back to the topic again....erm let me share u a little story about love dat i felt very touchy n it made my tears melt...but juz a little bit ok....;))

girl calls up boy: hey happy anniversary again
boy: hi happy anniservary!... hey remember you wanted to tell me something after school? sorry i left so early i had to go to work. so what did you want to tell me?

girl: i wanted to say i love you
boy: yeah i know everyone does!

boy:yeah... everyone of my friends that are girls tell me that everyday
girl: oh... but am i only your friend?

boy: no... you're my girlfriend... why?
girl: so when i say i love you i really do mean it

boy:yeah i know you do mean it...its just that you dont need to tell me that you love me anymore cuz i know you love me since the day we been together and i love you more each and everyday.
girl: ......

boy: so wanna go somewhere tonight for our 7th anni?
girl: yeah... where?

boy: i don't know... maybe movie then dinner?
girl: ok

boy:ill pick you up after i get off and get ready ok?
girl: ok. what time do you get off?

boy: in 2 hours and then i gotta go home and yeah get ready which takes about 15-20 mintues...
girl: aye... i thought you didn't have work today...

boy: one of my co-workers called in sick
girl: oh okay! so ill see you around 7:30 then?

boy: yeah! and babe?
girl: yeah?

boy: i love you
girl: i love you too!

boy: ok my manager is like looking at me so yeah.... i gotta go.
girl: ok bye

boy: bye 2 hours later... the boy drives to his girlfriends house boy walks up to the door and rings bell
girl: hey! (gives a kiss to her boyfriend)

boy: wassup... you ready?
girl: um... wait... let me get my bag and we could go ok?

They both watched a movie and ate dinner.... once they were done eating they head back to the car but before she got into the car...
boy: wait! can i blind fold you?

girl: why??!
boy: its a suprise

girl: what kind of suprise?
boy: a big one

girl: okay but only if you promise me that you will hold my hand while we're driving.
boy: i promise.

girl: ok blind fold me... so they drove off........... and then they stoped. boy:ok we're here!
girl: where?

boy:wait let me walk you to the place!
girl: what place?

boy: somewhere! (and gives a kiss to her on the lips)
girl: babe!... the boy walks her to the place ok.... let me take the blind fold off

girl: where are we? he takes it off her and she opens her eyes and sees the view of the city and at that same spot... thats where he first asked her be his girlfriend...
girl: omg.... (tears come down) boy: why are you crying?
girl: this is where you first asked me out...

boy: what are you doing the rest of your life? (he asked on his knees and after he says that...behind him... in the air it says will you marry me?" in firworks)
girl: (tears come down faster)

boy: i wasnt at work when you called me... i was planning this whole thing!
girl: get up!

boy: yeah?
girl: (kisses him)

boy: is that a yes or a no?
girl: yes

Kinda...sweet love story isn't???hihi well...for me...dis story can be considered as a true love where both side have the feeling of responsibility towards their love inside each other.Love couldn't work in one side.Because love requires the unity of two heart.Possessiveness, jealousy,lust ,fear ,keeping people all to yourself is not what we call love.But real love is unconditional. All other “forms” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.So, how does unconditional love fit in with relationships and marriage and sex and all that stuff the whole world keeps going crazy over? It doesn’t, really. It doesn’t “fit” in anywhere. Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough. And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible way to show someone how much you love them.

Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.

In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else (including what I just said). You are the only person who can tell you what love is.

Diari seorang lelaki~

2010-05-14T23:08:00.003+08:00

Yes!!!,hatiku separuh menjerit.

Are you really sure about that?

Jejariku laju menekan keyboard.

Ermm..well..ya,i think so

Gadisku membalas.

Think aje?

Aku memancing.

Definitely..yes!

Dan jawapannya itu membuatku menjerit tahap dewa.Yahoooo!!!!

TOK!!TOK!!TOK!! Bertalu-talu ketukan di pintu bilikku.

"Weh,pehal ko?sawan ape?,"Azmeer menjerit dari luar.

"Sori bro,terlebih hormon kegembiraan daa..,"aku tergelak kecil.

"Pape je la.."Azmeer membalas.

Ku kembali merenung skrin leptop Vaio pemberian kakakku.Mengetuk-ngetuk meja sambil otakku ligat mengeluarkan idea-idea emas.

So...dah boleh call la ni?

aku menduga.

Abes...bagi no fon tu untuk buat pekasam ke?

gadisku membalas.

Hehe..tanye aje...still couldn't believe it..

aku tersenyum.

Hihi..okla,gtg.Later k.

Gadisku menamatkan perbualan.

Orite then,i'll text u later ya.

Ok.

Gadisku.Hmm memandai je aku ni cakap dia tu gadis aku.Tapi,takpelah..bukannya dia tau pun.Aku sorang je tau.Eh bukan,aku dan bebudak rumahku yang bengong ni.Tapi memang dah lama aku berkenan kat dia.Cuma takde chance je.Dia dah bagi phone number.Kira green light la tu kan...hehehe Adoii...gumbiranya hati ni..yihaaa!!!Ermm...nak mesej ape ek...Ajak keluar??Malu la pulak...eh,aku ni laki la....malu apenye...hmm...ajak je la keluar...dinner should be ok kot...

Seraya aku mencapai telefon bimbitku.

Hye u...it's me,Firas.Erm..klu mlm ni I ajak u dinner ok x?

Ha delivered!Hatiku berdebar-debar menanti jawapan dari gadisku.

Ello...ermm mlm ni ye...pukul brpa tu?

How about 8?

If that so...okla...xde masalah.Nk jumpa kt mna?

I'll fetch u k...=)

Dan malam itu merupakan malam paling bersejarah dalam hidupku.Perasaan gembira tu mesti la kan...date yang ku tunggu-tunggu sejak sekian lama.Tapi,yang spoilnye...camne la aku boleh terlupa bawak wallet.Alih-alih,gadisku jugak yang belanja.Takpelah...next time I cover balik ye wahai gadisku.Aku senang melihat dia tersenyum.Cair je rase hati ini.Wahhh...dah terbang ke langit berapa dah aku ni....

"Erm..u,pasni kite nak pegi mana," suara merdu gadisku mematikan penerbanganku tadi.

"U dah letih ke?or stil nak jalan lagi?," aku menjawab dengan penuh ke'macho'an.

"I ok je...boleh kot jalan kejap," aduss...dia senyum pulak.Bertambah-tambah getaran di hatiku ini.

"Ok,kalau macam tu...kite round-round je la.Tengok pemandangan malam.Kalau U nak beli apa-apa..bagitau I k?,"aku pun senyum manis kat dia.

"Orite!," eee...hepinye tengok dia hepi.Aku senyum dalam hati.

Aku dan gadisku berjalan beriringan menuju ke pintu utama restoran tersebut.Tetiba...

BAMMMMM!!!Aku terhantuk pada pintu kaca tersebut.

BUKKK!!ADOI!!

Laaa...mimpi rupanya...

Hish...baru nak happy..ingatkan betul-betul tadi.

Dan hakikatnya...aku masih lagi dalam proses meminta nombor telefon gadisku itu.Belum berjaya daa...Tihihi...~

Jika cinta dia by Geisha

2010-03-03T22:55:00.002+08:00

Terlampau sering kau buat air mataku

Tak pernah kau tahu dalamnya rasa cintaku

Tak banyak inginku jangan kau ulangi
Menyakiti aku sesuka kelakuanmu
Ku bukan manusia yang tidak berfikir
Berulang kali kau lakukan itu padaku

Reff:
Jika cinta dia jujurlah padaku

Tinggalkan aku disini tanpa senyumanmu

Jika cinta dia ku coba mengerti

Teramat sering kau membuat patah hatiku

Kau datang padanya tak pernah kutahu

Kau tinggalkan aku disaat ku butuh kan mu
Cinta tak begini selama ku tahu
Tetapi ku lemah karena cintaku padamu

Jika cinta dia jujurlah padaku

Tinggalkan aku disini tanpa senyumanmu
Jika cinta dia ku coba mengerti
Mungkin kau bukan cinta sejati dihidupku

whoaa...such a touching song!! ='(

Sungai & Hidup....

2010-02-07T22:47:00.004+08:00

Petang tadi...aku turun semula ke sungai.Hajat mahu menikmati keindahan alam dan menenangkan hati yang rawan. Ku lihat sungai itu sudah berubah...mungkin disebabkan banjir besar dulu...bisik hatiku. Namun begitu,ku lihat sungai itu kelihatan sangat tenang. Sangat mendamaikan dan sangat cantik. Aku terpegun seketika. Hatiku mula terubat. Ku susuri tebing-tebing sungai bersama hati yang gembira. Kemudian aku mengambil keputusan untuk duduk di atas sebuah batu besar. Petang yang mendamaikan,angin yang bertiup lembut..lagu yang berdendangan di telinga membuatkan aku terbuai seketika. Dahulu,sungai ini juga cantik. Airnya deras..berliku-liku dan jernih. Tapi,sekarang ianya lebih cantik. Lebih tenang. Tetapi masih jernih. Aku mula merangkak jauh ke dalam lamunanku. Mungkin hidup juga seperti sungai ini. Biarpun kita melalui hari-hari yang indah, dugaan dan cabaran tidak akan jemu bertandang. Dan setiap kali kita melepasi dugaan itu,kita akan menjadi semakin kuat. Semakin tabah. Hidup juga akan menjadi semakin bermakna. Aku bangun dan meneruskan perjalananku. Ku lihat ada satu kawasan di sepanjang sungai itu yang sangat menarik perhatianku. Aku tersenyum. Tidak tahu mengapa hatiku begitu terusik melihat keadaan seperti itu. Dan aku mengelamun kembali. Mungkin juga hidup ini seperti sungai. Apa sahaja musibah yang datang melanda, jika kita kuat dan teruskan perjalanan kita...kita akan temui sesuatu yang amat berharga. Sesuatu yang amat memberi makna dalam hidup kita. Lewat petang itu, ku titipkan kata-kata semangat buat diriku agar teruskan perjalanan hidup ini tidak kira betapa pahitnya pengalaman lalu. Kerana pahit itulah ubat yang akan menjanjikan kebahagiaan kelak.....

Sumthing....

2010-02-05T12:33:00.002+08:00

*Got dis simple story about luv from sum1...sory for copying without permission...huhuk but I really luv it...=)

Suatu pagi yang dingin, terjadilah satu perbualan antara seorang guru falsafah dan pelajarnya...

pelajar: guru, apakah erti cinta..?bagaimanakah saya boleh mendapatkannya...?

guru: ada sebuah ladang gandum yang luas didepan sana. berjalanlah kamu dan jangan sesekali kamu berundur. kemudian ambillah satu ranting. sekiranya kamu mendapati ranting tersebut sangat menakjubkan, ertinya kamu telah menemui cinta.

pelajar tersebut pun berjalan dan tidak berapa lama dia kembali dengan tangan yang kosong.

guru bertanya: mengapa kamu tidak membawa sebatang ranting pun...?

pelajar menjawab: saya hanya terpaksa memilih satu ranting saja, dan sewaktu berjalan saya tidak boleh mengundur kebelakang semula. sebenarnya saya telah berjumpa dengan satu ranting yang paling menakjubkan tapi saya tak tahu apakah yang akan menakjubkan di hadapan sana nanti, maka saya biarkan ranting itu lalu saya dapati tidak ada lagi ranting yang paling menakjubkan selain daripada yang saya lihat tadi. jadi saya tidak mengambil sebatang pun akhirnya.

gurunya menjawab: ye, itu lah cinta...

dihari lainnya pula pelajar tersebut bertanya kepada gurunya, apa itu perkahwinan...?

guru: ada hutan yang subur didepan sana. berjalanlah kamu. tapi janganlah kamu sesekali mengundur kebelakang. tebanglah sepohon pokok saja. dan tebanglah jika kamu merasakan bahawa pohon tersebut adalah yang paling cantik,segar dan tinggi, kerana kamu telah menemukan apa itu perkahwinan.

pelajar tersebut pun berjalan, dan tidak berapa lama, dia datang semula dengan membawa sepohon kayu, walaupun pohon tersebut tidaklah berapa segar, cantik dan tinggi pada pandangan guru tersebut.

maka gurunya pun bertanya: mengapa kamu memotong pohon seperti ini....?

pelajar itu menjawab: sebab, berdasarkan pengalaman saya sebelum ini, sayahanya berjalan separuh daripada hutan tersebut dan saya takut akan kembali dengan tangan kosong. jadi saya mengambil kesempatan menebang pohon ini lalu dibawa kesini. pada pandangan saya ianya adalah pohon yang terbaik buat saya. saya tidak mahu kehilangannya atau menyesal kerana tidak memilihnya...

maka guru itu menjawab: itulah perkahwinan.......

Huhe~

2010-01-21T21:35:00.002+08:00

There are 4 questions of value in life...

What is sacred?

Of what is the spirit made?

What is worth living for?

and

What is worth for dying for?

And the answer to each is the same...

Only LOVE...

Love..the simple word with four letters that is very complicated but yet so wonderful. It is beautiful..and it hurts. It looks simple,but actually it is hard.It is usually comes unseen..but then we'll only realize it when it's gone. Love is like a book..the further we get into it...the more it makes sense to us. But in a condition,we must truly understand what is actually the story wanted to tell us. Men and women are very different creature yet fate to be together. As in love, difference doesn't mean you cannot loved or being loved.But it is the difference that actually makes your love stronger if both of you could go through it together. In love,it is better to know and be disappointed,than to not know and always wonder. Many people said that love is blind,for we never know to whom our love will fall. But the truth, love is not blind. It simply enables one to see things others fail to see. When you decide to love, make sure that you are fully strong enough and have the courage 'coz the journey of love is build with lots of stones.It is rough and full of obstacles.But once you survive,you'll get the happiness that others don't. When you decide to fall in love, don't waste your time to find a perfect lover. Human is imperfect, but with true love...you'll see the imperfect person perfectly and you'll be together in creating the perfect love. Love will always created many feelings to us. Sometimes we feel bad, sometimes we feel happy, sometimes we feel relax, sometimes we feel nothing, and there are times we feel the ignorance. All the bad feelings are just the root that takes to the better feeling if we can handle it wisely. Do believe in love if you wanna feel the sacred. It is impossible to fall out of love.Love is such a powerful emotion,that once it envelops you it does not depart. True love is eternal. Love yourself before you love another.By accepting yourself and fully being what you are,your simple presence can make others happy.

Hope...

2010-01-12T15:13:00.003+08:00

May you find serenity and tranquility

in a world you may not always understand

May the pain you have known

and the conflict you have experienced

give you the strength to walk through life

facing each new situation with courage and optimism.

Always know that there are those

whose love and understanding will always be there,

even when you feel most alone.

May a kind word,

a reassuring touch,

and a warm smile

be yours every day of your life,

and may you give these gifts

as well as receive them.

May the teachings of those you admire

become part of you,

so that you may call upon them.

Remember, those whose lives you have touched

and who have touched yours

are always a part of you,

even if the encounters were less than you would have wished.

It is the content of the encounter

that is more important than its form.

May you not become too concerned with material matters,

but instead place immeasurable value

on the goodness in your heart.

Find time in each day to see beauty and love

in the world around you.

Realize that what you feel you lack in one regard

you may be more than compensated for in another.

What you feel you lack in the present

may become one of your strengths in the future.

May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility.

Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience.

May you find enough inner strength

to determine your own worth by yourself,

and not be dependent

on another's judgment of your accomplishments.

May you always feel loved....

~None~

2009-12-07T18:35:00.003+08:00

Bila tiba saat itu...kita akan berhenti berbicara..berhenti ketawa..dan berhenti menangis...

Kita hanya akan mula merenung...mula berfikir dan mula bermonolog...

Bila tiba saat kita mula merenung jauh...kenangan pahit manis yg pernah singgah didalam hidup mula menerpa ruang ingatan...

Dan bila tiba saat itu...kita mula berfikir...adakah kenangan itu cukup untuk membuat kita gembira dan menghargai hidup?

Atau..adakah kenangan itu cukup memberikan pengajaran kepada kita?

Mungkin jugak kenangan itu yg memberi kekuatan agar kita terus melangkah ke hadapan..

Dan di saat itu jugak..hati mula berbicara...senyum bila melihat kenangan manis dan suka duka hidup yg pernah menghiasi kehidupan...namun..hati tetap akan merintih,pd kenangan sedih...

Pada saat itu, hati mula menyimpan impian..untuk terus hidup pd kenangan manis yg memberi harapan..dan kenangan pahit yg memberi pengajaran... =)

New Zealand buatan..hihiihih

2009-12-05T19:56:00.006+08:00

Loving an imperfect person

2009-10-30T10:27:00.003+08:00

"You learn to love, not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."

When we meet the right person to love, when we are at the right place at the right time, which is chance. When you meet, someone you are attracted to, that is not a choice. That is chance.

Being caught up in a moment and there is many couples who get together because of this are not a choice. That is also a chance. The difference is what happens afterward. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?

That is when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that is not a chance. That is choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that is choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate is, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that is choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. However, true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make. Regarding soul mates, there is a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: “Fate brings you together, but it is still up to you to make it happen.

I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. Nevertheless, it is still up to you to make the choice if you are going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mates is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love…BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.

"The question of love is one that cannot be evaded. Whether or not you claim to be interested in it, from the moment you are alive you are bound to be concerned with love, because love is not just something that happens to you: It is a certain special way of being alive. Love is, in fact, an intensification of life, a completeness, a fullness, a wholeness of life."

There is no easy formula for determining right and wrong livelihood, but it is essential to keep the question alive. To return the sense of dignity and honor to manhood, we have to stop pretending that we can make a living at something that is trivial or destructive and still have sense of legitimate self-worth. A society in which vocation and job are separated for most people gradually creates an economy that is often devoid of spirit, one that frequently fills our pocketbooks at the cost of emptying our souls. It is impossible to fall out of love. Love is such a powerful emotion, that once it envelops you it does not depart. True love is eternal. If you think that you were once in love, but fell out of it, then it wasn't love you were in. There are no 'exit' signs in love, there is only 'on' ramp.

" Perkara Kecil "

2009-10-25T22:46:00.002+08:00

Did u see those cute little things up there?
Mereka nampak cute kn?
But..it's not them dat I want to talk about here...
Saya mahu bercerita mengenai perkara2 kecil yg kita selalu terlepas pandang sehingga ia menimbulkan pergaduhan dalam sesuatu perhubungan.
Actually,I always heard about this quotes which is sounds similar like this...
Kita selalu memandang ringan kpd perkara yg remeh temeh,tp sbnrnya...perkara remeh mcm ini la puncanya sesuatu pergaduhan...
And I do believe dat..

Contohnya:

1st situation Boy: Kan abg dh cakap Liverpool menang mlm ni.
Girl : Biarlah..laen kali Manu plak menang.
Boy:Manu xkan menang dh season ni.
Girl:Tau mane??Abg ni ahli nujum ke leh ramal2 cmtu?!
Boy:Lor...dh org laki mmg peminat setia bola,mmg la tau.
Girl:Habis tu pompuan ni ingat xde yg minat bola ke?!

Hmm tgk..makin lama makin hangat,padahal benda kecik je pon..psl BOLA
je...isk2

2nd situation Girl: You,arini tema kaler ape?
Boy: I think...we should wear red,ok x?
Girl:Alaa..kan kite dh pakai baju merah last week. Purple plak la.
Boy: Laa..purple kan kite janji nk pakai ari khamis,ni baru ari isnin.
Girl:xpe..tukar angin skali skala.
Boy: *@^#%$(terpaksa bersetuju n muke sentiase ketat spnjg date)

Yg ni plak..pasal KALER je pon nk gadoh...huhu

3rd situation Boy:Tadi I minum kopi pekat..perghh!!sedap plak.
Girl:U minum kopi??KOPI??/kan doktor dh pesan jgn minum kopi lg.
Boy:Xpe..I minum secawan je,pasni I x minum dh.
Girl: Aritu pn u dh penah cakap cmni kn?tp minum jgk.Lantak u la kali ni..minum la smpai mampos!

Errkkk???kdg2 pasal KOPI pn ade yg bole gadoh cmtu..

4th situation xde idea la plak...ade sesape nk tmbh??

~~~Sekian~~~

Dolu2 and skrg...

2009-10-20T21:53:00.007+08:00

Actually...saya tengah membuat penjelajahan blog ketika saya mendapat tajuk ini untuk dijadikan tajuk entri saya pada kali ini. Tajuk ni ada sikit2 sama dengan tajuk that blogger punya entry, cuma diubah sedikit...and ketika saya membaca blog blogger itu, saya tersenyum sendirian sbb entry dia sgt mencuit hati...bezanya..dalam entry dia tu,of coz she wrote about herself becoz it's her blog..n in my blog..I prefer to write about it in general..tihihi

Saudara saudari sekalian....

Ingat lg x mase korg kecik2 dulu???mesti bnyk sgt pengalaman sweet,sour & bitter kn?Yelah,kalo nak kata sweet memory tu...masa beby2 kn kite slalu dicubit2, dipelok2,dicium2,ditimang2,dimanja2 n mcm2 la 'di' nye...sbb masa tu...kita ni kelihatan sgt cute to the max!Almaklomlaa...beby.... Tapi x semua la sweet kn...of coz ada jgk yg bitter...Contohnya,mesti ada antara kita yg pernah dpt kemalangan kecik walopon mase beby2...ade 1 kes tu,c bapak tengah timang2 anak die..tggu punye tggu,anak die x turun2 jugak...laa...rupenye dh tesangkot kt kipas siling...isk2 sian..lps tu...ada lg 1 kes, parents tido lasak sgt..nak2 plak bwk beby tido skali kt katil...tgk2 beby tu dh tegolek kt bwh..uhuhu~~~pity beby..:D Kemudian, bila umur dah meningkat sedikit,dh boleh keluar main...mula la kita kenal kawan2. Masa tu, x kira boys or gurl...dua2 main sama2. Maen teng2 la...batu seremban la...buaian..jongkang jongkit..masak2 n yg paling bes skali maen KAWEN2!haha..haa korg2 pn mesti ada pglaman cmni kn?kn?alu la tu..tihihihi agak2 korg ingat lg x 'psgn' korg mase tu?adakah dia maken santek or emcem skrg?or adakah dia sudah menjadi milik org laen?xpon...adakah anda masih bersama?kukikukikuki itu antara kngn manis la kn...dpt kawen free...x pyh mas kawen pon..hee tp ada lg kenangan pahit, mgkin ada di antara kita...gatal sgt pegi wat ala2 rodeo gtu kt dpn kerbau pak mat tempe kt tepi pantai,tup2..bontot jd mangse sondolan..huk2 haa..xpon..maybe ade yg suka kaco anak ayam..penutupnya,mak ayam kejar n kena patuk menangis la jawabnye,pdn muke..hehe.Maybe zaman ni jgk,bermula la pglaman sour kite....contoh pglaman sour tu yg mcm ni, tgh bes2 mandi kt tali air..tibe2 mcm nk lemas...gabra gilee...tgn pon dh melambai2...pastu bole plak rse semacam je kt kaki...cesss..rupa2nya ditarik oleh kwn..huh!suspen je....Kemudian, zaman skolah.Hmm zaman ni mmg bes kn???tau sbb pe?mesti ada antara kite yg penah fall in leb ngan cekgu2 prektikel...auww kalo x fall pn...terlanggar sikit je busur cupid tu..wekeke xpon,ade yg dh ade part time job--->posmen karat::::tugas utama menghantar surat2 senta kawan2.Hahahehe...ada kn?ada kn?And...masa ni jgk la kita slalu merungut psl cekgu garang la, cerewet la, sombong la...pastu mula la gosip sana sini(kalo skola rendah laki n pompuan join je skali..tp kalo skola mngah more to pompuan la..kukikuki). Masa ni jgk..kita kenal ramai kwn n kwn2 pon ramai knl kita..Yela,kita la yg paling macho or santek kononnye kt skola tu... jd rebutan tau...propa u..haha..maybe ada jgk yg kurg menonjol masa skola..tp result exam2 besar..fuiyooo mengancam..pdhal masa cekgu mngajar asek tido...nk wat cmne..dh genius kn..tihihi pastu..bile dh besar ni,ala2 umo skrg....tringat plak zaman muda2 dulu...kdg2 ada antara kite yg nk patah blk untuk betolkan kesilapan...ada antara kite yg nk patah balik sbb gagal upsr,pmr,spm or what so ever.Ada jugak antara kita yg tringin nk patah balik sbb masa kecik2 dulu kalo nk benda sume dpt.And ada jugak yg nk patah balik sbb nk bersame dgn 'psgn' kawen olok2 die dulu..tihihi..tp..pape pon..kite jd manusia skrg ni sbb pengajaran n pengalaman yg kite dpt dari mase lalu kn? So hargai masa skrg anda ye...

So saudara n saudari sekalian...marilah kita sama2 berkongsi crita suka duka..Sharing is caring n loving kn..hehe mane la tau korg ade memory sweet sour n bitter yg besh..bole senyom2 ilangkan stress...:D

Wierdy...

2009-10-16T21:55:00.003+08:00

Sum1 found this thing in Thai..

Hmm..betol ke ek?terasa ingin ke sana pulak untuk melihat keajaiban yg diciptakan oleh Allah SWT ini..

Ihsan dari www.tanyasifu.com

~Salty Coffee~

2009-10-16T12:11:00.003+08:00

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him.

At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, and she thought to herself, "Please, let me go home..."

Suddenly he asked the waiter, "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously, "Why you have this hobby?" He replied, "When I was a little boy, I lived near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there." While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home... Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family.

That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said, "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life's lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything... Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth, I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste... But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again."

Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her, "What's the taste of salty coffee?" She replied, "It's sweet."

Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but HOLD ON!!!!

Tree:::Leaf:::Wind:::

2009-10-16T11:41:00.004+08:00

Tree

===

The reason I'm called tree is because I'm good at painting trees. Overtime I start to use a tree on the right hand corner as a trademark for all my watercolors painting. I have dated 5 girls when I was in Pre-U. There's one girl who I love a lot but never dare to go after her. She doesn't have a pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, doesn't have outstanding charm. She is just a very ordinary gal.

I like her. I really like her. Like her innocent, like her frankness. Like her cuteness, like her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt that if she's my girl, she will be mine ultimately & I don't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompany me for 3 years. She watch me chase after girls, and I have make her heart cry for 3 years.

She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smile & say "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes was swollen like a walnut. I purposely didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but laugh at her the whole day. When everybody go back home, she was alone crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer training to get something. I watch her cry for an hour or so.

My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at her and her eyes was filled shocked. I didn't care about her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she still laugh & joke with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but she didn't know that my heart ache is as bad as hers.

When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break up and she told me about her getting together. I know whose the guy. He has been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy full of energy, lively and interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school.

I can't show her my heart ache but could only smile & congratulate her. When I reach home, the heart ache is so strong that I can't stand it. It's like a heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but can't. Tears rolled down & I broke down & cry. How many times have I seen her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too.

During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then. It says "Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"

Leaf

===

During Pre-U days, I like to collect leaves. Why? Because I felt that for a leaf to leave the tree she has been relying on for so long it takes a lot of courage. During the 3 years of Pre-U I was on very close terms with a guy. Not BGR kind but as buddy kind. But when he had his 1st girlfriend, I learnt a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. The sourness in the heart can't be describe by using a lemon. It's like 100 rotten sour lemon. Sourness to the extreme limit. They were only together for 2 months. When they broke up, I hide my strong sense of happiness. But after a month, he got together with another girl.

I like him & I know he like me. But why won't he pursue me? Since he love me why he doesn't want to make the first move? Whenever he had a new girlfriend, my heart would hurt. Time after time, my heart was hurt. I begin to suspect that this is a one sided love. If he don't like he, why does he treat me so well. It's beyond what you will normally do for a friend. Liking a person is very heart wrenching. I can know his likes, his habits. But his feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can't expect me a girl to ask him right?

Despite that, I still want to be by his side. Care for him, accompany him, love him. Hoping that one fine day, he will come & love me. It's like waiting for his phone call every night, wanting him to send me sms. I know that no matter how busy he is, he will make time for me. Because of this, I waited for him. The 3 years were the hardest to go through & I really want to give up. Sometimes, I wonder should I continue waiting. The pain and hurt, the dilemma accompany me for 3 years.

Till the end of my 3rd year, a 2nd year junior begins to go after me. Everyday he pursuit me relentlessly. From outright rejection to a point in time when I felt that I'm willing to let him have a small footing in my heart. He's like a warm & gentle wind, trying to blow a leaf away from the tree. In the end, I realized that I didn't want to give this wind a small footing in my heart. I know this wind will bring this badly battered leave far away & better land. Finally I left tree, but the tree only smile & didn't ask me to stay. Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay.

Wind

====

I like a girl called leaf. Because she's so dependent on tree so I have to be a gust wind. A wind that will blow her away. When I first met her, it was 1 month after I transfer to the new school. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors & me playing soccer. During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends looking at him. When he talks with girls there's jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her, there's a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like she likes to look at him.

One day, she didn't appear. I felt something amissed. I can't explain the feeling except it's a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her. Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note & gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled & accept the note. The next day, she appeared & pass me a note and left.

Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away

It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me & accept my presents & phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me. Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times. Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her over. I can't remember how many times I have declared my love to her. Although I know she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope. Hoping that she will agree to me my girlfriend. I didn't hear any reply from her over the phone. I asked "what are you doing? How come you didn't want to reply?" She said, "I'm nodding my head". "Ah?" I couldn't believe my ears. "I'm nodding my head" She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly changed and took a taxi and rush to her place & press her door bell. During the moment when she opens the door. I hugged her tightly. Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay.

Weee~~~~

2009-10-15T15:47:00.003+08:00

Can't wait to see this film. Seems like very attractive n interesting...+ lovely...huhehuhehuhe :D